People in Boston

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

doubledown11

Don Juan

Aug 10, 2008

Hey people - was out last night around Fanny Hall w/some friends - and for the first time I interrupted some guy talking to some girl and he remarked that I had f-ed up his "set." Then he proceeded to give me some advice on getting the group of girls interested in hanging out later that night.

It made me realize that I would like to have a wingman to bounce ideas and constructive criticism off of.

If you're in Boston, send me a PM, and sometime this summer I'd like to grab some drinks and bounce ideas/criticism, etc.

Cheers

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.