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High Voltage

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The couple in the apartment beside me are fukking like they're the last two people on Earth and need to repopulate the planet. They go at it 2-3 times a *day*, everyday, for 0.25-2.00 hours each time. This has been going on for over a week. This lead me to wonder (after being awakened at 3 am yet again) how often everyone has sex. Consider this situation:

You are committed to one girl and living with her. You are both under 25. She is just as hot as you (so if you're an 8 she's an 8, etc.). You both work a similar 8 hour day. If you have ever been in this (or a similar) situation I would like your input. How long (number of days) could you fuk this girl with the frequency described above before your interest started to drop, assuming the sex was average in intensity? After some point your interest *would* drop because she is not 'new' and you've done everything with her already, there are no more surprises, correct? I can't imagine anyone continuing for long at that pace, both the girl and guy parts need a rest! I would be interested in discussing this with someone in private as well, so if you don't feel like broadcasting your story all over sosuave then pm me.

When in a committed relationship with a girl I've known for over 6 months I am content with sex once a day. I have no drive to do it any more than that. However, in the first couple weeks of the relationship twice a day is more the norm for me. I'm curious to hear other people's responses. I suspect that the people I described at the beginning are immature and insecure. From their rather loud argument last night I suspect the girl feels worthless unless she has a c0ck in her and the guy is insecure about his performance and thus must fuk her as often as he can to convince himself that he's good at it or get as much sex as he can before she leaves him due to his perceived poor ability at sex. I think its the former. Regardless, comments from experienced individuals would be appreciated.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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High Voltage said:
The couple in the apartment beside me are fukking like they're the last two people on Earth and need to repopulate the planet. They go at it 2-3 times a *day*, everyday, for 0.25-2.00 hours each time. This has been going on for over a week. This lead me to wonder (after being awakened at 3 am yet again) how often everyone has sex. Consider this situation:
I'm guessing they don't have full-time jobs? Or he has a lifetime supply of Viagra?

A normal, healthy person working full-time would not be having sex up to 6 hrs everyday. That's ridiculous and will actually drain his health.

When you live together with your girl, are working full-time, having entertainment, socializing and doing daily chores, you're lucky to get in bed each night by 10 PM...and having to wake up again the next morning at 6-something to repeat the cycle... Well sorry, but you just can't squeeze in 2 hrs of sex in there every night, then. Again, unless you're bums with no other life.
 

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Apart from the day I had surgery on my balls and two other occasions I have fukced my gf at least once every day for the last seven months. Often twice, sometimes five.

I know what you mean about getting used to someone, I've had LTRs where the sex slacked off for a number of reasons. But if your neighbours are keeping the flame of attraction alive and the sex is awesome, I doubt their motivation is borne of insecurity or trying to prove anything. They just love fukcing.
 

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The couple in the apartment beside me are fukking like they're the last two people on Earth and need to repopulate the planet. They go at it 2-3 times a *day*, everyday, for 0.25-2.00 hours each time. This has been going on for over a week. This lead me to wonder (after being awakened at 3 am yet again) how often everyone has sex. Consider this situation:


That's great, good for them. I know wives (and husbands) who wish they were f*ing half as much as those two. If they are keeping you up at night, go over and ask them to keep it down.

If you have ever been in this (or a similar) situation I would like your input. How long (number of days) could you fuk this girl with the frequency described above before your interest started to drop, assuming the sex was average in intensity?

There are allot of variables to consider, so it's hard to answer this question with any type of accuracy.

I can't imagine anyone continuing for long at that pace, both the girl and guy parts need a rest!

Why not? You might need the rest, but maybe they don't. Maybe they don't WANT the rest because they enjoy it so much. Maybe they were just as h*rny with their last partners.

I suspect that the people I described at the beginning are immature and insecure. From their rather loud argument last night I suspect the girl feels worthless unless she has a c0ck in her and the guy is insecure about his performance and thus must fuk her as often as he can to convince himself that he's good at it or get as much sex as he can before she leaves him due to his perceived poor ability at sex.

You've gathered all this information from one argument and allot of sex? That makes no sense bro. Are you bothered by the fact that they are having so much $ex and you are not, or don't have the drive to do so?

I'm not trying to attack you, but you sound a little bitter.
 

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I'm sort of like the original poster. I know plenty of guys who get contented when they're getting plenty of puzzy and don't want it all the time. I only like it about 4 times a week now. It usually takes me about 2 weeks to quit getting off 2-3 times in one session. I believe it's the natural progress of a relationship. My gf still really turns me on, but damn, I've got so much going on usually I'm just tired when I get home. Our best sex is usually on weekends when we're well rested. Also, you have to mix it up and not let it get boring. I go in spells when I want it for one week, then I don't. It makes it better for me to wait a few days then go in there and beat it up for an hour.....
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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WAYWORD

My thoughts exactly. They both have part-time jobs. I just can't imagine having that much energy - at least to have good sex a couple times each day.

NIGHTHAWK

Thanks for sharing. My whole motivation behind this post is that you never really *know* what other people's sex lives are like. Sure people tell you stuff, but people do lie. I'm not referring to you, but to the fact that I have a chance to observe this other couple's sex life. I think its interesting.

KINGS_ROYALTY

Surely there must be *some* physical limit to how much people can have sex? Just like anything else if you overuse it you get injured. I can't imagine why this wouldn't apply to this situation.

Granted some of my conclusions could be premature. However, the fact remains that they are indeed having sex at this frequency and I'm curious as to how it compares to others. The conclusions could effectively be ignored with no impact on my question.

Am I bothered by the noise or frequency of sex? Not really. What other people do does not bother me. They are no louder than me and my girl are. I thought that this would be an interesting discussion topic.

SPEED DAWG

What you posted I thought was the norm. I am interested to see how we compare to others who reply. Thanks for your reply.
 

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do you masturbate with the same hand everytime? yes. why would having sex stop being fun, even if it was the same person? (theres a lot more s.hit you can do with a girl sexually than your hand, duh)
 

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a person can not...

- have too much money
- have too much fun
- have too many women, or
- have too much sex

plus, who are you (or we) to decide what is right for someone else.
 

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Wonder what the attitude would be if the shoe were on the other foot? Hmmmmm.....
 

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when they are doing it, have fun with it.
re arrange your room to have your bed up against their wall.
so when they start doing it, you start jumping on your bed and banging the headboard against the walls.
you can even invite a girl voice over to ohh and ahh just for giggles. if they stop doing it for a second (because they hear you) holler "its ok the neighbors are on viagra and f like rabbits all day, we'd never disturb them!"
 

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I see that all of the posters after my reply have missed the point of my post, with the exception of MIGHTYMATE. Thanks man. Although I didn't get the number of responses I was hoping for, my general thoughts at the beginning of this thread regarding how the frequency of sex changes with time seem to be correct. I'm interested to see how this will compare with my neighbors over time.

PENKITTEN

I love your suggestions. If they ever get disruptive I may just do that ;)
 

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Once a day is usually fine for me, but I did date this incredibly sexual girl for about a year, and there was a night where I fukked her 4 times, man that was tiring though, i'm not sure it was worth it haha
 

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I once jacked off 15 times in 1 day. now that was tiring,. my **** almost fell off.
 

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High Voltage said:
Surely there must be *some* physical limit to how much people can have sex? Just like anything else if you overuse it you get injured. I can't imagine why this wouldn't apply to this situation.
Of course there's a limit, but you walk everyday and breathe every day and your heart beats every day all day. Why do you expect people to get hurt using sex organs a couple times a day? Plenty of time for recovery.
 

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Kings_royalty said:
a person can not...

- have too much money
- have too much fun
- have too many women, or
- have too much sex


I like this outlook...lol.
I agree, but after a while a lot of sex is just like work to me.
 

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DasaniWater said:
I once jacked off 15 times in 1 day. now that was tiring,. my **** almost fell off.
holy mother fvcker. the last orgasim must have been painful. I got 6 in once.

when I started seeing my gf, we did it like 4 to 5 times on sat and sun. Just spent all day and night sexing. now only like 1-3 times.
 
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