"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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every one semes to be having a go at people for posting certian things. it disocurages posting and is not very nice, and its happening so much just for any post.

i tinhk you should temporerly suspend people that have a go at other people posting questions, for say 3 days, this will get the message in to their heads!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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some one asks for advice about somthing and some one else gives then hell for it saying they should not post questions like this, it ussaly happens most to new members and could cause them to leave, theres no specific post i was talking about, i just see it happening all the time especialy when new members ask questions such as what do women want in a man.
 

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It is usually because everyone gets tired of seeing the same questions over and over again, and they are almost always questions about stuff that would have been answered if the newbie had read the DJ Bible before asking.;)
 

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i undetstand that, and thats why people tell them to read the bible and that is the right thing to say but some members decide this is not enough and that they have to have a go at people for this kind of post instead
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Spike_the_cowboy

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Well, lets just say that there are alot of frustrated young men on this board. Just ignore them.
 

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If it bothers you that much, don't read the responses. However, people will always get aggravated - even to a degree more than is called for - when noobs ask inane questions that have been previously answered in scores of threads, topics, and even stickies at the top of the forum that apparently they are too lazy to read. It might not be nice, but it's what happens.

If anything, ban the people who can't take the time to use the search function of the forum... :p
 

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Originally posted by [T]he ishop
If anything, ban the people who can't take the time to use the search function of the forum... :p



Yeah, I'm with you on that one.:D
 
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