"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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People asking questions like "when should I do this" "did I handle this correctly" et

mikey2012

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You know these threads like "when to be patient" " did I handle this right " " did she like me" "when should I text" "why didn't she text me back"

Who gives a shiit? Approach woman like you would . Act yourself . Don't second guess yourself . Who cares what she thinks? If she likes you she likes you. If she doesn't who gives a fvck!!! Find someone who likes you.

Don't spend time overthinking and guessing what they think of you. Do as you would. Act natural . Obviously don't burp and fart in front of them . But don't be fazed by a woman.

You want to hook up? Call her and set up a date . On the date act yourself and be sure to escalate . If she don't respond then next her. Don't hope to turn her around so she likes you. It's a waste of time.

Remember you are the prize! You hold the higher value ! Not her.
If you want to game chicks you need to have this mindset.
If she don't fit the bill move and get next one. Never settle for second best. If she piszzes you off soft next her.

She needs to win you over not the other way round.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Man, if it were that easy, your post would be the home page of SS. No need for a forum, right? But everybody's got a different background, a different situation and a different learning curve.
Interaction with women is a skill that needs to be practiced, not something you can just cram in your head and spit out at a multiple choice test. So even though there's tons of repetitive questions and threads that you, at the time, think are unnecessary, this is where many guys are right now.
"You're not alone" - THE reason for coming here and posting the 1000th thread about something that 1000 other guys have figured out, but that YOU in YOUR life yet need to get the hang of.
 

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Moroder said:
Man, if it were that easy, your post would be the home page of SS. No need for a forum, right? But everybody's got a different background, a different situation and a different learning curve.
True. All women respond to the same things, but what is different about them is that they all have different agendas and their personalities manifested by their attitudes are different. In addition, every man is different, with different LMS, goals and purposes. it is virtually impossible to give 100% fool proof advice since there are too many varibles in every single male-female interaction without in depth coaching. I am of the strong opinion that the "Red Pill" philosophy is the correct approach, but you can follow something else if you want to waste your time. Advice given here comes from a Red Pill perspective.

Moroder said:
Interaction with women is a skill that needs to be practiced, not something you can just cram in your head and spit out at a multiple choice test. So even though there's tons of repetitive questions and threads that you, at the time, think are unnecessary, this is where many guys are right now.
I agree. The only way you can get really good with women is to continue to practice. While you are practicing... it is important to engage with outcome independance... IOW don't expect anything to happen, just engage... see what happens, figure out what works and does not work and learn. This forum actually allows all of us to learn for each other's experience, provided you have swallowed the Red Pill.


Moroder said:
THE reason for coming here and posting the 1000th thread about something that 1000 other guys have figured out, but that YOU in YOUR life yet need to get the hang of.
My reason is really selfish. This philosophy, like all philosophies require discipline. It's the same reason why people of faith continue to keep going to church every week. I come here because often times it reminds me of where I came from and to reinforce my belief in this process. It helps me stay the course since being a human being I'm subject to error and falling back into old weak behavior because we live in a culture of lies that continues to pummel us with imagery and ideas that Beta like behavior is correct and works (see any stupid movie with Hugh Grant in it). In addition to all the relationship 'guides' written by women (now I'm laughing) that tells people how not to behave. This place is a nice hedge against this.
 
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