"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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people always mimick my body language

Bonafide

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I dunno what this means but I often notice females and males copying my body language is that a good thing?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jeffthechef

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Buddy, you have been here longer than me, a total of about 22 months on SS.

What have you learned?
This question is usually asked by people who just find this site.

In buddhism, monks chant and learn from teachers/elders. But, all monks eventually reach a point, where they can no longer learn from others or at least not a significant amount. Once reaching this point, they can only learn learn by looking inwards and experiencing life first-hand. Nirvana is not something someone can teach them; it is something they must find by themselves through experience. Same goes with SS.

You won't be able to learn how to be a dj/alpha simply through reading the dj bible and asking questions. You will only be able to reach that educational peak point. The thing is, you haven't seemed to reach that peak point.

Here's my advice to you...read the dj bible again. Then, try reading the link in my signature. It's a post for people who haven't reached the point yet.

THEN, come back and ask questions.

But since i'm already posting, i'll answer your question...

Think about it. The kids at your school grew up in similar schools and family structures, the majority of them at least. What do you expect?

You watch Dead Poets Society?...They all begin their walks with different styles. But eventually, the other students clap in unison and the three kids begin to walk the same way, same pace, etc. Society preaches conformity. That's part of it. When you see all your friends just chilling, you don't walk over to them and start jacking off or picking your nose or doing some strange ****.

Even the subtlest of movements work accordingly. IN buddhism, again, there is a belief that we are all mirrors reflecting what others want to see. When you point out the inferior qualities of others, you may simply be doing so out of your own insecurity.

ANYWAYS, yes you can read body language. But, as for them mimicking your body language. On a one on one situation with a girl outside of school, then it might be her showing her interest in you and attraction. Though she's already interested so it means ****...

In a school setting, it means ****. I see people "copying" my body language all the time. Humans do many things and act similarly. Get used to it.
 

eaglez1177

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Your asking dumb questions that have been answered many times over. Stop being so lazy and search around for answers.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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