Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Pentagon pushing for women in combat!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Joe The Homophobe
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Am I the only one here that thinks women have no place in combat situations, and the only job of female soldiers in Iraq should be either being nurses, or cooking for the soldiers?
seriously enough with the politically correct BS! You know what this is going to lead to? lots of women getting killed, captured and raped, and lots and lots of casualties which is going to hurt morale of the troops, and will fire up more hate towards the military.
seriously enough with the politically correct BS! You know what this is going to lead to? lots of women getting killed, captured and raped, and lots and lots of casualties which is going to hurt morale of the troops, and will fire up more hate towards the military.
Can women have a place in warfare? Sure. Even on the battlefield.
However, the military is about winning, not equality. I can't see a woman in artillery, tanks, special forces etc.
I can see women having a place in communications and logistics, piloting, medics, mechanics, etc. Woman have a place in combat, in support roles and "non-physical" combat roles (piloting).
However, the military is about winning, not equality. I can't see a woman in artillery, tanks, special forces etc.
I can see women having a place in communications and logistics, piloting, medics, mechanics, etc. Woman have a place in combat, in support roles and "non-physical" combat roles (piloting).
comic_relief
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C'mon they deserve it
They were b!tching about equal rights all the time with the feminist movement. Well baby they got it now.
Maybe now they will also realize that they should get rid of the divorce rulings that screw over the man. Give them equal rights man and woman.
Seriously I think that it is the wrong place to send women to. You must understand that in those countries they don't want to show a womans face and they hide them behind the burka's or bee keeper suits (Bill Maher (sp.)). They will fight 10 times harder to get them out of there. This is the same reason that the Isreali army doesn't have women in frontline postions. I don't know if they changed that ruling but I believe that it is still around.
They were b!tching about equal rights all the time with the feminist movement. Well baby they got it now.
Maybe now they will also realize that they should get rid of the divorce rulings that screw over the man. Give them equal rights man and woman.
Seriously I think that it is the wrong place to send women to. You must understand that in those countries they don't want to show a womans face and they hide them behind the burka's or bee keeper suits (Bill Maher (sp.)). They will fight 10 times harder to get them out of there. This is the same reason that the Isreali army doesn't have women in frontline postions. I don't know if they changed that ruling but I believe that it is still around.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Joe The Homophobe
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Re: C'mon they deserve it
I think it is time to take away their right to vote. Whoever is responsible for that abomination which started this whole mess must surely be burning in hell!
diplomatic_lie
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Women ARE in the army and many serve in combat situations.
In the US forces, women often serve in logistics and communications roles.
In China, there are female frontline medical divisions.
In Russia, there are even female commando divisions.
The reason women don't serve on regular combat roles is due to a lot of reasons, not all of them physical. Psychologically, there are difficulties in positioning men and women together.
But in some ways, it would shut those feminists up if women were sent to fight on the front lines.
In the US forces, women often serve in logistics and communications roles.
In China, there are female frontline medical divisions.
In Russia, there are even female commando divisions.
The reason women don't serve on regular combat roles is due to a lot of reasons, not all of them physical. Psychologically, there are difficulties in positioning men and women together.
But in some ways, it would shut those feminists up if women were sent to fight on the front lines.
idiot_boyfriend
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m4a1
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Only feminists should be in combat, I want to see them break down in the field, lol.
Joe The Homophobe,
Your name reflects a lot of insecurities, nothing wrong with being a man, but to actually choose that as your name is hideous, I'm sure you have lots of great traits that could have been used in the place of "homophobe" in your name.
Joe The Homophobe,
Your name reflects a lot of insecurities, nothing wrong with being a man, but to actually choose that as your name is hideous, I'm sure you have lots of great traits that could have been used in the place of "homophobe" in your name.
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