“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Penny Wise, Pound Foolish

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10 Examples of How You Can Be Penny Wise, Pound Foolish

Everyone loves saving money, cutting back, and reducing expenses. However, sometimes there is a tendency to focus on the wrong things. While you’re busy feeling good about reducing little costs here and there, every once in a while you neglect the larger picture. Here are some examples:

1. Saving money by not going to the doctor for regular check-ups (those $20 copayments can add up!) or taking the bare minimum health insurance plan, but having to pay a large sum in an emergency. (This goes for any necessary insurance, not just health.)

2. Saving money by taking advantage of tens of thousands of dollars in 0% credit card balance transfer offers to gain a few hundred dollars, but being offered a higher mortgage percentage rate because of the temporary decrease in your credit score, costing thousands.

3. Receiving the 15% discount for opening a store credit card, but paying the balance off slowly, adding interest fees (and possibly late fees).

4. Locating the gas station with the lowest gas prices, but driving 20 minutes out of the way to save $0.05 per gallon, or, looking for the lowest gas prices but buying a vehicle with poor gas-mileage.

5. Saving several hundred dollars by not hiring a tax accountant to review complicated situations, but later owing the IRS thousands in fees and penalties.

6. Downloading music illegally to save $15 per CD, but being sued by the RIAA for up to $150,000 per song and settling out of court for an undiscolsed sum.

7. Buying the least expensive clothing and shoes, but having to replace the wardrobe frequently because of poor quality.

8. Parking and “just running in” without feeding the meter a quarter, but returning to find a parking ticket attached to your windshield.

9. Spending hours completing online surveys or writing pay-per-posts for a few bucks each, while your time could be better spent improving skills to land a better job or developing a winning business plan.

10. Haggling for lower prices at a garage sale, but buying a new car to put in your own garage.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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roja said:
6. Downloading music illegally to save $15 per CD, but being sued by the RIAA for up to $150,000 per song and settling out of court for an undiscolsed sum.
This article was written two years ago. Just to let everybody know, the RIAA just announced it has stopped pursuing lawsuits. They now will send a letter to your ISP and you will have three warnings before your Internet connection is cut off. The legality of this action by the RIAA is shady (by using unlicensed private investigators who technologically can't prove you shared a song). Also, the RIAA sued "only" 30,000 people, out of an untold tens (or hundreds? of) millions of people, so the chances of "pound foolish" were rather slim.

(Hah. I wrote shady, and then slim. Slim shady. And I hate Eminem.)
 

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Glad the RIAA stopped suing. $150,000 per song!?!?!?! Damn, I'd owe them billions!
 

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New Car

I used to see many college kids buying new car with loans and what not
and struggling with debt ,

Image of good car status
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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fuzzx said:
7. Buying the least expensive clothing and shoes, but having to replace the wardrobe frequently because of poor quality.


This is a crap rule. I buy all my stuff used as of this year at value village when I was looking for a Nintendo controller. I just glanced at a like new leather jacket for 12 bucks. Couldn't believe it and ended up hitting the 50% sale that month.. I bought 8 leather jackets for like 3 dollars each. Also 6 pairs of jeans for 5 bucks each and a whole bunch of sweaters and shirts.... You can look like a million bucks in a hundred if you know how to pull it off.

I will never buy new clothes again. I will however buy a new wardrobe every 6 months. Poor quality? Thats bs, I only buy the 20 dollar skate shoes from zellars and I've still got a few of my first pairs from like 10 years ago... they lasted that long.
Yeah. People buy so much cloths they don't even wear half of them so some 'second hand' cloths are actually new. Some people have a problem with it but even in shops people try on cloths etc so those are technically used too.


If you buy a car it losing thousands or euro/dollars as you drive it out of the garage.
 

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roja said:
I used to see many college kids buying new car with loans and what not
and struggling with debt ,

Image of good car status
This is the worst.

I see so many kids that have these nice rides yet can't afford to take them anywhere.

Or grown men who drive Hummers but still live with ther parents. It's so funny.

Who are they foolin'?
Yeah, they're driving a nice car but only making $10.00/hr.

Not to mention the depreciation and interest.

My philosophy is if I don't have at least twice the value of the car in expendable liquid assests then I can't afford it.
 

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
Who are they foolin'?
Women. The guy my ex fooled around with had a new mercedes. He also had half my income. She was like, well, he doesn't make your kind of money but ... she liked the ride.

On the other hand, he drove her to and from work for a month, and she spent the weekends with me, trying to get me back. And I didn't even have a car. After a few weeks she gave up on both of us.

So my conclusion is you can get a girl's attention with a new mercedes, but it won't help much beyond that. Let's just hope the GOV is not planning to bail out these fools, too.
 
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