"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"although it never mattered to me , i did date a guy or two that wanted to know everything you ever did, and then once you told them what they wanted to know, they couldn't handle the information and went crazy nuts, leaving your entire relationship ruined."

WOW...I havent been here in a while and was just looking around and noticed this post you wrote...and I said ****...that kinda sounds like me...i havent exactly reached the "crazy" stage yet but i find myself asking alot of probing questions lately. I have been with this girl for over 1 year and things are great...I am her first long term relation. and she is great....

I will ask a question very casually about her past and then get a feeling she doesnt want to share and keep probing until we end up fighting...I will admit I get mad over stupid crap lately..(might be stressed from my new job)...She even used the words "jealous" on me and it totally caught me off guard cause that is the first time it came up....I am man enough to admit this much but I guess I`m wondering if you can help guide me in the right direction or maybe give me examples on what your ex`s would bring up....

I really feel bad for her because I`m always telling her to be honest with me and then get mad if it`s something bad. DOn`t get me wrong this girl hardly has a past if any which is maybe why I get so frustrated but I always get the feeling she is not telling the WHOLE story..(but why should she right?)...

and she NEVER asks me about my past...don`t know how to interpret that..

Hope you can shoot some advice my way...

THanks
J
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have the exact opposite of what was just discussed.

My girlfriend and I always regale each other in sexual adventures with previous partners and we talked about what we do and do not like.

We have managed to figure out a lot of new sexual techniques for each other.

This is probably rare within most people though.

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AFCs, that are low self esteem and extremely insecure, and unhappy in their lives are the ones who need constant reaffirmation and reassurance.
 
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bosshogg, i thought i emailed you back on 11-28-07 when you sent me this email. this is what i wrote to you:

perhaps she doesn't ask because your past doesn't matter to her, she loves you anyways. or perhaps she does not ask because by knowing something, it would drive her crazy or perhaps she just doesn't want to start a fight. or there is always the case that she just doesn't care about your past as much as you want her to.
find a balance with this, within yourself.
sometimes not sharing every detail is for your own good.
:) hope you have a good day
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i stand behind the " sometimes not sharing every detail is for your own good because less is more. however someone else's life was before they met you, their trials and tribulations, formed their character of who they are now.
 
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You are insecure. A woman's 'past' doesn't interest me much, I know I'm the best she's ever had or is going to get. Objectively, that could sound hopelessly, delusionally arrogant. But any other mindset will worry the womenfolk that maybe you're not all that. Also it's true, I'm awesome.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The past is the past. Aslong as she is loyal and faithful to you now. The past don't matter. Unless she did some things that go against your beliefs that may be a problem.
 
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thanks guys

the funny thing is that i`m not insecure. I even admitted to her that I was acting strange lately. Been together over 1 year and this NEVER came up.

It`s not so much her "past" that bothers me, its the fact that I can openly talk about mine and she does NOT want to talk about hers, which leads me to believe she is hiding something from me.

And there is no need to call me an AFC, i find it very comical, I am here looking for mature feedback not name calling.

Thanks
 
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