"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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pen15 routine ...

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hi guys ...
So there was a girl in a club, she is dancer :cool: A friend of mine knew her, so she came to talk to him. And so I "asked" her to kiss me in cheek and we could be "friends";)

And so we started to talk about each other. After a while my friend told me that she was a dancer. She acted like she was shy to talk about dancing, but i pulled out a marker and asked her if I could put her in the club "pen15". This i s a game I think by neil strauss where pen15 means PENIS :D.
She accepted and i wrote down in her hand pen15. She didn't know what was that. Than she started "begging" me to tell her what does it mean. So I took her hand and showed to her friends. They started to laugh and finally she understood about it. But she wasn't mad at me.

After this I didn't ask for her number or e-mail, I just waved her goodbye and went back to my friends.

Yesterday I saw her, ( by the way she called me pen15 ) we talked about 2minuts but it didn't happend anything she just told me that she's gonna be in that club ( were we met for the first time ) in Saterday, and I told her that we gonna meet there :p.

So what you suggest guys, what can I do to seduce her :D ??

And something else, I never thought that this "routine" will work. Cause girls spend 1 hour to make up befor they go out, and if you write , even her name, in their hand, I thought it will be an insoult. But I was wrong, so now on I'll always trust in Style.
Thank you Style :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MCristo

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Pen15 was a huge joke around here in midddle school
 

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haha i had totally forgotten pen15 until now.

A completely immature prank to pull on a girl your macking...but its highschool so its a perfect fit.
 

DJ_Matthew

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john paul said:
haha i had totally forgotten pen15 until now.

A completely immature prank to pull on a girl your macking...but its highschool so its a perfect fit.
I'm trying this tomorrow for sure.
 
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