"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PE at a Young Age?

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What are you guys' thoughts on penis enlargement at a highschool age, or penis enlargement in general?

A friend of mine thought that I would end up with erectile dysfunction and a possible even smaller penis; that I'm not fully developed yet. He also thinks that it's stupid of me to even care. I mean, I'm a virgin (and have never kissed a girl or had a girlfriend, on that note), so why should I care about something like penis size? All of the guys on MoS (the main PE forum) are well into adulthood and are sexually experienced. Do you guys think that my age could make a difference? What are your thoughts on PE in general and such a young, sexually inexperienced person pursuing a larger penis?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'd only mess around with it if your penis significantly below average(and therefor you have nothing to lose)

the average is 5-6 inches
 

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devilkingx2 said:
I'd only mess around with it if your penis significantly below average(and therefor you have nothing to lose)

the average is 5-6 inches
The average size is 5.5 to 6.1 inches in length, and 4.7 to 5.1 inches in girth. I'm 5.5x5.1, but I just feel like sh*t with an average size. Like I've said in my main thread, I'm aiming for 7 inches in length; I'm perfectly happy with my girth.
 

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I remember when I was in high school and cared about my penis size. All of my friends cared about their size too and gave each other stuff about it.

I'm gonna say it's just a phase. I'm sitting at around average size and foreplay goes far more in 'depth' than penis size in my opinion.

It's one thing to have a big penis but a whole new other thing to be amazing at foreplay.
 

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Frayzer said:
I remember when I was in high school and cared about my penis size. All of my friends cared about their size too and gave each other stuff about it.

I'm gonna say it's just a phase. I'm sitting at around average size and foreplay goes far more in 'depth' than penis size in my opinion.

It's one thing to have a big penis but a whole new other thing to be amazing at foreplay.
May it sound cliche or not, I'm more into the passion of sex/foreplay than the actual sex (although it is also great), so I get what you're saying 100%. It's both a personal, self-confidence thing and a please-my-partner thing. I don't plan on going any further than twenty minutes of stretching and jelqing a day; no pumps, extenders, wraps, etc.

In short, just don't think that I think that all there is to sex is your penis size. While I want a larger penis, I also equally want to be a good lover (feel free to give tips since you're talking so highly :cool:).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bogwoy said:
The average penis size is NOT 5.5inches. Read this.
what matters most is the average for where you are, not the world average.
 

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It works. It really does, with alot of time and dedication you can gain an inch or two.

But there are huge risks involved and the amount of time and dedication needed to actually reach your goals is almost pathological. You will be spending alot of time alone pulling on your d!ck. Not healthy for your d!ck and not healthy for your psyche.

Do kegels and stretches. They seem to work, not as well as jelqing, but they work. Also pay attention to a woman when you are with her. She will let you know what works and what doesn't.
 

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FairShake said:
It works. It really does, with alot of time and dedication you can gain an inch or two.

But there are huge risks involved and the amount of time and dedication needed to actually reach your goals is almost pathological. You will be spending alot of time alone pulling on your d!ck. Not healthy for your d!ck and not healthy for your psyche.

Do kegels and stretches. They seem to work, not as well as jelqing, but they work. Also pay attention to a woman when you are with her. She will let you know what works and what doesn't.
Honestly, if I can hit 6", I'd be happy. I'm going to keep doing PE, obviously, but I'm not doing anything more than twenty minutes a day of the basic stretching, jelqing, and kegels.

Kegels and stretches promote length? I thought kegels strengthened your PC (and reverse your BC), which helped you control your orgasm (pretty much making you last longer in bed). Stretches I thought just loosened your ligaments and tissues, making jelqs less dangerous (preventing like a curve). Is this not true?
 

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DoctorCoops said:
Honestly, if I can hit 6", I'd be happy. I'm going to keep doing PE, obviously, but I'm not doing anything more than twenty minutes a day of the basic stretching, jelqing, and kegels.

Kegels and stretches promote length? I thought kegels strengthened your PC (and reverse your BC), which helped you control your orgasm (pretty much making you last longer in bed). Stretches I thought just loosened your ligaments and tissues, making jelqs less dangerous (preventing like a curve). Is this not true?
Kegels have made my erections harder which promotes girth. Stretching has helped length.

Both only go so far though. If you want to get more gains you jelq. Personally I don't think it's worth it though.
 
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