"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PE a problem?

stryped

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I have suffered with it my whole life. If somethign happens to my current marriage and I am forced to find someone else, will this keep me from findign someone or dating, etc?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJDamage

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Originally posted by Desdinova
What the hell is PE? Physical Education? Pure Energy? Poached Eggs?
I think its Penis Envy.

For the original poster its all in your head unless you do have a noticeably smaller penis (4 inches or smaller). Most women are more worried about HOW you would judge them when they are naked as oppose to judging your manhood.

DjDamage
 

stryped

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premature ejaculation

I have tried everythig. WIll it be a problem?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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joekerr31

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whast the big deal with PE.
i dotn have it, but why cant you just blow your load, rest for 5 minutes, then bang her again (im assuming you wont have PE the second time aroudn).

or with PE do you blow your load then you can't get it up again?

my advice, as with your other post, is that these issues are way to complex to be asking guys in cyberspace how to fix.

you really do need to see a specialist for these kinds of things.

J
 

stryped

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I am just wondering if this would cause problems in the dating arean, finding someone else.

No, it takes much longer than 5 minutes to go again.
 

Slickster

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Try watching a shyt load of porn.

Jerk off everyday until you are desensitized to sex.

No more PE :)
 

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Yea, but I think it could keep you from certain women. How do you explain the problem when you are dating?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Slickster

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What do you mean?

Do you ejaculate during a date?

Jerk off before you go out on a date. That way you aren't going out with a loaded gun.
 

Desdinova

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How do you explain the problem when you are dating?
You don't. If you end up in bed with her, just tell her that she makes you real damn excited. Then eat her out and finger her until she reaches orgasm.

If you act like it isn't a big deal, she won't make a big deal out of it.
 

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it's all in your head old mate..

masturbate a couple of time a week and make it last half and hour minimum.. This will retrain your reflex to last longer..

PE mostly comes from being a teenager and trying to masturbate as quickly as possible...

There is a multitude of information at hand for you to read on this subject old mate..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chrispy

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Try deeper breathing and thinking about something else. Make it about her (as the others have said) too. Then you'll both be happy.
 

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If I feel like Im going to to blow too soon, I just stop the action for a minute or so, make out with her, then resume. You can go on for hours this way.
 

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I am a pharmacist. You can talk to your doctor about prescribing a drug called Paxil. It is often used to treat PE. (it is an anti-depressant)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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