"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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digitalrat

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I haven't had any time to continue my work on the PDF version of the bible. Here is my original I did, which doesnt have links to each article. It's just article after article, yet its in the sequence of the online bible.

Also, if there is enough people that are willing to join an IRC channel such as #donjuan and chat etc... for quick advice or just random conversations. I'd be willing to get a server for us to have our own personal IRCd server that can be linked to irc.sosuave.net. Let me know if you guys want this kind of service to expand sosuave.net.

http://www.nunez.tv/djbible.pdf

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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spider_007

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i think the reason Irc isn't popular on this site is because it's not user friendly.....

if only we could get a room (on a site) that supports webcam/voice chat, we'd have a lot better response.

personally i gave up trying to figure out irc

good job with the bible, is it done? if it's not, let us know when it is
 

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It is pretty easy to figure out IRC once you get into the mIRC program. All you really have to do is do "/server irc.sosuave.net" or any other IRC server and it connects to the IRC server. Then you just /join #donjuan etc... when it is up.

The only thing you need to setup is your nickname etc... that you want to use on the server. Not much too it. It's pretty hands on.

www.mirc.com has some good quick tutorials on it. I know once we get a good group and get it started people would love it. The learning curve is much quick with real-time conversation and real-time questions.
 

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it still not idot proof like yahoo, plus all those extra fitures would make a difference.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Irc sounds good to me
 

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Originally posted by diablo
Just curious as to whether you intend on putting a table of contents in there somewhere?
When I get time to sit down and just do it all at once. Shouldnt be that difficult to do, its just very time consuming.
 

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just make the channel on freenode so the sosauve one and the fs can be on the same network

just get somebody to post announcement that #donjuan will be on freenode and then let the gimps use a regular client
 

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Why not make a .chm version of the bible instead(windows help file). I always like those better. I hate PDF, and acrobats loading times.

Couldn't you just take the html pages from the bible, make a little index/ToC page and compile it all?

I'd do it myself but i dont have the time.
 

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I just revived this trying to find out how to use mIRC.

Is the bible going to be done soon...?

I think the most helpful thing would be a chatroom though. Do you guys agree?

One not on mIRC would be great...



Keep up the good work man! Hope you can do this!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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