"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PDF Bible & Don Juan Chat Room

digitalrat

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I haven't had any time to continue my work on the PDF version of the bible. Here is my original I did, which doesnt have links to each article. It's just article after article, yet its in the sequence of the online bible.

Also, if there is enough people that are willing to join an IRC channel such as #donjuan and chat etc... for quick advice or just random conversations. I'd be willing to get a server for us to have our own personal IRCd server that can be linked to irc.sosuave.net. Let me know if you guys want this kind of service to expand sosuave.net.

http://www.nunez.tv/djbible.pdf

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i think the reason Irc isn't popular on this site is because it's not user friendly.....

if only we could get a room (on a site) that supports webcam/voice chat, we'd have a lot better response.

personally i gave up trying to figure out irc

good job with the bible, is it done? if it's not, let us know when it is
 

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It is pretty easy to figure out IRC once you get into the mIRC program. All you really have to do is do "/server irc.sosuave.net" or any other IRC server and it connects to the IRC server. Then you just /join #donjuan etc... when it is up.

The only thing you need to setup is your nickname etc... that you want to use on the server. Not much too it. It's pretty hands on.

www.mirc.com has some good quick tutorials on it. I know once we get a good group and get it started people would love it. The learning curve is much quick with real-time conversation and real-time questions.
 

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it still not idot proof like yahoo, plus all those extra fitures would make a difference.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Irc sounds good to me
 

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Originally posted by diablo
Just curious as to whether you intend on putting a table of contents in there somewhere?
When I get time to sit down and just do it all at once. Shouldnt be that difficult to do, its just very time consuming.
 

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just make the channel on freenode so the sosauve one and the fs can be on the same network

just get somebody to post announcement that #donjuan will be on freenode and then let the gimps use a regular client
 

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Why not make a .chm version of the bible instead(windows help file). I always like those better. I hate PDF, and acrobats loading times.

Couldn't you just take the html pages from the bible, make a little index/ToC page and compile it all?

I'd do it myself but i dont have the time.
 

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I just revived this trying to find out how to use mIRC.

Is the bible going to be done soon...?

I think the most helpful thing would be a chatroom though. Do you guys agree?

One not on mIRC would be great...



Keep up the good work man! Hope you can do this!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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