"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
PC Muscle
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Jango_Xavier
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In about a weeks time i'll be putting up an article on have multi orgasms which your PC muscle is needed for so make sure to come back and read it.
Jango
It's got load of stuff about the PC muscle and other workouts you can do to help sexual performance.
They say to 3 lots of 20 reps a day on your PC muscle, holding each clamp for 2 seconds. Do this for about 3 weeks to build it up and then start doing "super Clamps" where you tense the muscle really slowly and hold it for 15 secs.
Ive been doing it for about 2 weeks and so far so good. I think i had a semi-ejaculation the other day as well so hopefully with a little more practice nothing will get out that i don't want to!!