"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I got this email. dont understand what some of it means.

Bank Account Added
Dear Andrew Bissada,

Congratulations! You have successfully added a bank account and may now withdraw funds from your PayPal account to your bank account via electronic funds transfer.

What's Next?

Confirm your bank account and become Verified!
Confirm Your Bank Account in 2 Easy Steps
PayPal has made two small deposits into the bank account you just added. These deposits should appear in your bank account in 2-3 business days.
Step 1: Find out the exact amounts of the two deposits (listed as deposits from PayPal) by checking your bank statement or by calling your bank's customer service department.
Step 2: Log in to your PayPal account and enter the two deposit amounts. By entering the two deposit amounts, you'll confirm that you are the true owner of the bank account.







The two deposits? didnt paypal give me the two deposits? why am i supposed to type it to them?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Paypal uses this process to verify that the bank account you gave them is really yours. I went through this process as well. They put like 35 cents and 40 cents in your account(Small amounts not specifically those amounts). Check your statement for your bank account and where you go to verify your account type in the amount of both the deposits. Its basically a verification process.
 

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Originally posted by No_Sleep
Check your statement for your bank account and where you go to verify your account type in the amount of both the deposits. Its basically a verification process.
my statement? like bank of america sent it to me in the mail? huh?
 

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Just check your account activity. Either by phone, online, or monthly statement.

I love paypal. I have a business account with them though I don't own a business. I just did it to get the debit card.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You check your bank of america account and it should have have a small deposit in there from Paypal. Then after you check the Bank of America account log in to Paypal and put in the amount of the two deposits Paypal put in your accout, it should be the first thing you see after you log in. I just signed up for Paypal as well, but I have not recieved the confirmation deposit yet from them.
 

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yes but how do i check it online??

or maybe ill just clal if its easier? what#?

i need to do it quick because a bid is ending in 2 days
 

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In order to check your bank account online you prolly have to register. When I registered to check to my account online I had to wait a couple of days for a letter from the bank before I could actually use the service. It would prolly be easiest to call the bank. The # maybe on your checkbook, if it's not there just go to the Bank of America website and they should have a # there where you can call.
 

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BofA has an a general 800 number. It's in the phonebook. Or just call 411. They should know it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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this is pizzing me off. i got this email
To view your account statements online go to the Accounts tab and then
the Account Activity tab. From there, click the View Paper Statement
link and then select the link that displays the date for the statement
you wish to view. Selecting a link for the statement period will open a
new window for that statement.

i dont see a ****ing accounts tab D:<!!!

ill try calling them
 

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tried signbing up on the internet but it said my information did not match their records. which cant be possible considered i quadruple chcecked it and definately have an account D:<????
 

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I think it's time you stopped posting here with your paypal questions and start reading the faq's listed on the sites more carefully.

This shiet is wasting our time now.
 

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considering i did and it didnt work.

ill try callin tomorrow. gotta be closd now

actually ill just go to the fin bank.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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account i went to the bank and fixed everything and found out the deposits

but when i click submit amounts.. it doesnt do anything. i hate ****ing windows D:<!!!!
 
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