"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i was walking around wal--mart the other day and i met a hottie (probbably an 8) well anyways she gave me her number and i'm probably gonna call her tomorrow for the first time and ask her out for tomorrow night. i 'm planning to offer her to go to a coffee shop (something like tim hortons or something) and then tell her that she's not a freak, i will take her to movies... u know we might become friends...

well anyways i'm a student and i've been running low on money so coffee is alrite but i don't wanna pay for this movie ticket ... what do u guys do on first days?

also i've never done a coffee date since i'm 17 (she's 16) it seems like we are too young to go on a coffee date... everybody goes to movies on their first days... cuz i live in a really small town with a population of 20k or so and there is nothing to do here, even for the movies, we have to go to the next town... so do u guys have any ideas about where to take 16 year-old... cuz tips are usually for guys around 25 and over i think... so any help is appericiated...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Walk, parks, etc ect.

There are lots of things to dot hat are free. Coffees alright, but your right, she might not want coffee. good thing they sell other stuff ;)

Try to stay away from the movies, you don't get any face time. Just cause everyone goes to the movies for their first day, doesn't mean you have too.
 
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Its only awkward if you make it awkward
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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so i'm supposed to tell her that i wanna get to know her better and ask her if she wants to take a walk with me??? should it be during daytime or evening time?

any other suggestions?
 
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Don't take her to the movies if you cannot pay for both your tickets and some snacks to munch on.

If you ask her to go, then you need to pay.

Like already mentioned, there are plenty of fun things to do for a date that are free.
 
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