Paying for movies

[00Kevin]

This is my mindset when it comes to paying for a movie.

First of all I always try to pay first. Most of the time it will catch her off guard and I just buy two tickets from the machine and not wait in line.

I know that alot of you are thinking, "why should I pay for it?"

The reason is simple.

I am testing her to see if she will allow me to provide for her. Most women who are feminists or that think "modern" can't let a man do that. There are many that simply don't like you and don't want to feel bad if they let you pay.

You have to understand that the last thing I want is a woman that doesn't respect my ability to provide. If she doens't show respect in that regard then I have no use for her and I next her.

A woman should enjoy my company and she should also let a man lead her. If she isn't that kind of woman then she is of no use to me. I'm not looking for a fight at all. I don' t have the time to convince a woman I am a good man.

If a girl can't relax and let a man (that she has high interest in) pay for her movie what good is she?

I once had a girl stuff money in my face and get upset. I took it, but at the end of the night I stuffed the money back in her pocket without her knowing. This resulted in her showing alot more interest in me. With that action I basically told her that I am a man that doesn't need or want her to provide for me.

The bottom line is this. I value a woman who can relax and let a man show her a good time ( ie no bit-ching allowed)

 

[DisobeyThePope]

nothing gets da b1tches hotter than sitting in darkness and silence for two hours surrounded by strangers

 

[SonOfTheMostHigh]

Originally posted by DisobeyThePope
nothing gets da b1tches hotter than sitting in darkness and silence for two hours surrounded by strangers

Especially when you're doing naughty things around those strangers...

 

[SonOfTheMostHigh]

Originally posted by 00Kevin
This is my mindset when it comes to If a girl can't relax and let a man (that she has high interest in) pay for her movie what good is she?

IMHO paying or not paying is not a big deal, I always let the girl pay for us both on a first date, throw in a little ****y and funny and pretending to be all that in a playful way and they pay. I think its fair to switch (treat one another) then it doesn't seem like someones getting jewed and can add a playful element.

 

[Ace of Flames]

i hate how everyone bashes the movies so much. i mean, its not the greatest date idea ever, and it DOES get old. but its not like it cant be fun. u dont ALWAYS have to be flirting and making moves. i mean, after u've gotten past the first bunch of dates, and u're "together", sometimes u just want to go out and do something with her. u dont have to be the most amazing date ever anymore, u already got her. dont stop being your dj self, never do that. but im sure u can sit together in a movie theater for 2 hours, not saying anything, and still be an "item" afterwards. i think of movies as experiences, and its good to share experiences with your girl. u can always talk after the movie. share your thoughts on it, relive the jokes, u know.

and in case that doesnt work, u can always make out in the back of the theater.

 

[Marlimus]

'getting jewed'?

I'm not even a jew and I find that offensive.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

Price of movies these days are ridiculous.

Regardless of the chick, time, situation, etc., I refuse to pay for both of our movie tickets. I usually just go up, buy mine first, and let her buy hers second.

Try getting one at watching it at your place or hers instead.

 

[flexion_]

I usually will pay for something just out of simplicity and say something like, "you can get the coffee's..." for whatever thing it is we may be doing.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Tell her she's paying for you. The mindset you should have is "who cares"..

 

[jigga23]

pay for her the first time and see what she does the next if she offers the next time then thats good if not shes a mooch.

 

[Jariel]

I agree with you and I always pay on formal dates. I'll accept her buying me a drink or two in return, but I'd never make her pay separately.

I understand the principle of not paying so women won't walk over you, but there's a line between paying on a date and lavishing her with gifts and buying her affection.

Anyone who makes a woman pay for her part of the date is going to look very tightfisted.

 

[Jariel]

Originally posted by flexion_
I usually will pay for something just out of simplicity and say something like, "you can get the coffee's..." for whatever thing it is we may be doing.

Yeah, likewise.

 

[Yotuki]

Originally posted by jigga23
pay for her the first time and see what she does the next if she offers the next time then thats good if not shes a mooch.

Yep. I usually just pay without thinking about it too much. If she doesn't offer to pay, then that's points against her. It's been a long time since I've been out with a girl who didn't at least OFFER to pay.

Just watch out, because if she gets nasty after you let her pay, her offer wasn't genuine. Screw them if that's the case. I don't mind payin' on a date, but most girls I know make almost as much money as I do, so why should I have to foot the bill for everything while she spends her extra dough on presents for herself? Let her treat you once in a while!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Don't you guys ever go out with women who are open to paying the guy's way? It's kinda easy if they have a high IL.