"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Paying for drinks/dates

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Rollo Tomassi said:
The contests would be tests of devotion, sometimes writing sonnets or oetry, other times it may've been slowly bleeding to death to prove their affections. Obviously taken to the extreme this had it's downside, but the "games" took root in society and have evolved over the course of history.


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...Men bleeding slowly to death to prove their affections ?

So they had cheating BPD women way back then ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jophil28 said:
...Men bleeding slowly to death to prove their affections ?

So they had cheating BPD women way back then ?

Yes, they did. And if you had the benefit of a good liberal education including Humanities and Western Traditions you'd already know this.

;)
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Yes, they did. And if you had the benefit of a good liberal education including Humanities and Western Traditions you'd already know this.

;)
Nah, I "settled " for Elec Engineering. Silly me, I was young and an idealist in my own way.. I am now not burdened by the ownership of a liberal Arts degree with an unfashionable major.
Praise the lawd !

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FrancoPUA said:
If Vito Corleone buys stuff to a woman do you think she will feel he is an idiot ? Hell no.
Lol, that makes sense. I can see this is more about my internal state than anything that may have to do with how a woman perceives me.


FrancoPUA said:
Whatever you do from a masculine dominant frame arouses a woman. Whatever you do from a submissive feminine frame turns a woman off.
Good stuff.
 

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Whatever you do from a masculine dominant frame arouses a woman.
There are guys here who think they can do "whatever" and that as long as they have a perception about themselves that they're being "the man", all's good. But I say there's such a thing as deluding oneself too. I may think I'm being the man, but I may be being negligent, domineering, possessive or abusive, and that turns off a reasonably sane woman. So when you say "whatever", I think that's a broad sweeping statement that may give the wrong idea to some. I think it's more like as long as a guy portrays positive masculine qualities, it's good.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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