"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I enjoy hearing how other experienced guys play. Always something to be learned.

@LJC if they knock u back on dinner at yours and counter dinner out. How would u screen out the professional dater/AW types at that point.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I stopped taking girls out and wasting 50$ each time for someone who's just gonna disappoint me and be a waste of money..
this was years ago and i was spiteful coming out of a divorce...

What I learned from this was truly genuine girls didn't ask or mind we hung at my house , cooked at home or hit the park for leisure free dates.. in fact I'm still friends wirh 3 women and would be there if they needed me for anything.. a couple other women acted bored or snippy and I learned they were superficial..

The genuine girls were appreciative just to be around me as I'm a good guy..and.reciprocated being kind.

She snippy superficial girls were disinterested. They would rather be wined and dined..

It's understandable girls like to be treated special ,but the entitlement and spoiled brats show easily with this test.
 
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