"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Paying for dates.

ubercat

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I enjoy hearing how other experienced guys play. Always something to be learned.

@LJC if they knock u back on dinner at yours and counter dinner out. How would u screen out the professional dater/AW types at that point.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I stopped taking girls out and wasting 50$ each time for someone who's just gonna disappoint me and be a waste of money..
this was years ago and i was spiteful coming out of a divorce...

What I learned from this was truly genuine girls didn't ask or mind we hung at my house , cooked at home or hit the park for leisure free dates.. in fact I'm still friends wirh 3 women and would be there if they needed me for anything.. a couple other women acted bored or snippy and I learned they were superficial..

The genuine girls were appreciative just to be around me as I'm a good guy..and.reciprocated being kind.

She snippy superficial girls were disinterested. They would rather be wined and dined..

It's understandable girls like to be treated special ,but the entitlement and spoiled brats show easily with this test.
 
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