"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LadiesMan56

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Well this basically asks two questions 1) Me and my friend got into an arguement i said on a first date with a new chick you split the bill 50/50 he said that would be the biggest mistake and that you should pay it all. the second one is im almost outta high school and since theres no more girls at our school where is the next best place to meet girls. I have no problem when i actually get to sit and talk with them i can make it work but other than that its difficult. Thanks in advance for the advice.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In Motion

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ALWAYS PAY FOR HER. Jesus Christ, If you don't pay for her you'll end up looking like a douche (no offense). You can never, ever, ever, ever let her pay even for a part of the meal.

When she says: "Oh no don't pay for me, Ill get it myself"
It actually means: "PAY FOR ME, PAY FOR ME"

Place to meet girls outside of school? Parties, mall, beach, wherever you guys hang out.
 
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yeah if u don't pay for the whole bill you'll look like a cheap-ass or greedy bastard
 
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I've heard of people playing it cool, like setting up the date as a "you owe me" type situation and using humour. I know a guy who had a girl ask when his birthday was and it was the previous week so he asked her out by saying thay she never got him a gift and she could at the very least by him a sandwich to make up for it. It worked.

So you could probably set it up so that she pays for you!
 
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