Pay the Price. Stop being lazy

[Michaelangelo]

To many people on this forum are overly focused on learning techniques and tricks. You hope that you'll find that magic technique that will cure your problems with women. Let me tell you that i used to be just like this. I would pull out all the techniques on women. I would use them and i would sometimes get lucky and attract the occasional girl. I would luck through passing some of the girls tests but sooner or later the girl would find out that i wasnt the real deal. She would realize that my actions werent coming from the believe system of a guy who deserved her. I was just a Beta male pretending to be an Alpha male.

SO WAKE UP LIKE I EVENTUALLY DID!
I stopped being so instant gratified! I begun to take steps to make myself into the guy who truely deserves the girl. BECAUSE YOU WILL NATURALLY ATTRACT THE GIRLS YOU DESERVE. With this knew found realization I begun working out and take better care of myself. I Begun Dressing better. More importantly i have taken concious control of my evolution. I listen to self help tapes constantly, i spend less time watchin tv, instead choosing to read books that i know will improve myself. I have stepped out of my comfort zone and taken on risks and challenges. I have left my old job which wasn't getting me anywhere and taken a job that is helping me to evolve into a better man. Since taken these steps i have naturally become more confident and higher status in my own mind. I now naturally am attracting more women. I have literally forgotten half of the techniques i once knew. I don't need them anymore, I have become the guy who naturally deserves women. And don't get me wrong I am no where at the level that I want to be at with women but i am continuing onthe path.

SO I ASK YOU THIS! are you willing to pay the price to get what it is that you want. Becoming successful with women ultimately is your choice. Are you going to pay the price, spend the time that it will take. YOU damn well should! Life isn't a ****ing dress rehersal, so stop living like it is. AND Don't improve yourself just because you want to have more women. Do it because you want to reach your full fukin potential.

 

[nando]

good stuff man, i agree

 

[Nygard]

Many congratulations to you.You managed to do a good job if you are not boasting lies, you must be happy with yourself right now.
Just out of couriosity, how long did it take you to get -there-?
When did you decide to change? why? Was there any event involved ?
Which was your "north" (The "New" you ) and how diferent was it from the old yourself?

 

[DJ_Matthew]

I agree completely.

Man I just wish our generation wasn't as lazy...

 

[bukowski_merit]

improving your looks and style is just one aspect of being a PUA
a lot of guys on here don't have a clue how to talk to women or how to handle their games
i work out and dress so well i rarely go a day without someone complimenting me on it
but i still have to understand how to deal with everyday stuff that a lot of articles on this site have helped me with.

but i definitely think everyone should do their best to improve their apperance
it can only help