"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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pay attention to the moment

Blackgame

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its like this. pick up is dynamic, its not a series of steps. no interaction is the same. no two females are the same. you must always collaborate to the situaction. look at the moment keep your eyes on the moment.

example:

you are walking in the club with your boys you talk to the first group of females you see. nothing heavy just some talk to get you going just then you lock eyes with a fine latin baby you give her the come hither, she comes... you pull her to a isolate wall in the club she begins to grind you slowly ... pulling you close to her with her hands, guiding your hand to her... love spot... she is making love to you in her mind she wants you... and then you say "so were do you work?" .............


SIGH!!!!

pay attention to the moment if you did you would have realized that this women wanted to go home and **** not talk about work... be the man to make both of your desires come true by turning off your social conditioning/matrix and truly feel out the moment.


-Blackgame
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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