Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
:crackup: :crackup:zekko said:
Currently engaged in cleaning spat coffee off monitor...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Paul Janka - Day Game legend - Video proof
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Currently engaged in cleaning spat coffee off monitor...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
"I'm a law student here"
"OK...." in a submissive voice...
LOL, I disagree with you guys. I think it was pretty masterful. He created drama between mother and daughter, a killer tactic.
As someone who is in show business, I can tell you that it is a fact that when someone is comfortable in front of a camera, they can become an entirely different person and positively fearless. The camera brings out a personna that can't be as fully accessed when the camera are off. The cmera and the knowledge of being filmed provides an enourmous energy to feed the personna.
Let's take inventory here...
Ultra-good looks
Claims to be law student at college
Creates drama between two women (mother and daughter no less)
Ultra good looks
Respectfull toward mom
Ultra good looks
To mom - "We looked at each other and thought each other was cute so we're going to start there". Masterfull playing of mom.
The guy might have a huge advantage looks-wise (but notice that he has created a "closed", mysterious look that anyone can emulate), but there is a lot to learn from him.
Notice also that he keeps a cool attitude as if to convey, "I'm not really sure about you yet. I'm looking to see if you're worth my time".
This particular kind of exchange is a gamble and who knows what take number this was, but it shows what is possible in terms of creating energy and holding frame.
All you need is a sense of style, being in shape, and conversational skills and you can drop the training wheels, be your authentic self, and succeed.
"OK...." in a submissive voice...
LOL, I disagree with you guys. I think it was pretty masterful. He created drama between mother and daughter, a killer tactic.
As someone who is in show business, I can tell you that it is a fact that when someone is comfortable in front of a camera, they can become an entirely different person and positively fearless. The camera brings out a personna that can't be as fully accessed when the camera are off. The cmera and the knowledge of being filmed provides an enourmous energy to feed the personna.
Let's take inventory here...
Ultra-good looks
Claims to be law student at college
Creates drama between two women (mother and daughter no less)
Ultra good looks
Respectfull toward mom
Ultra good looks
To mom - "We looked at each other and thought each other was cute so we're going to start there". Masterfull playing of mom.
The guy might have a huge advantage looks-wise (but notice that he has created a "closed", mysterious look that anyone can emulate), but there is a lot to learn from him.
Notice also that he keeps a cool attitude as if to convey, "I'm not really sure about you yet. I'm looking to see if you're worth my time".
This particular kind of exchange is a gamble and who knows what take number this was, but it shows what is possible in terms of creating energy and holding frame.
All you need is a sense of style, being in shape, and conversational skills and you can drop the training wheels, be your authentic self, and succeed.