"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Patience and Persistence Go Hand in Hand

BeyondCharm

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This is a very simple tip:

Be persistent in going for it is what you want, calling when you want to call, setting up dates and going the places you want to go. Enjoy being the prize.

Be patient by having a life filled with activities and events, being able to allow tension to build, not worrying if a call goes unreturned or things don't go exactly as you'd expected.

Remember: You will learn from every interaction, and only be stretching YOUR comfort zone and taking risks and chances will the real progress and learning take place. It is in my most risky and courageous statements and actions that some of my most notable experiences and lessons were learned. Don't be afraid to try something new, different and extraordinary, DJ's are afterall extraordinary people.

Enjoy your day and remember that no matter what reaction you get from a woman from an action you take, you are communicating and continually arousing her interests as long as you are persistent and patient. Have fun.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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