Paternity Test

[Romjuan]

Its been a while fellas. I have this dillema that i wanted to get everyones input/advice for. A friend of mine (female) is engaged with her bf of 5 years. 6 years ago we hooked up one time. A week later she hooked up with her fiancee and then became pregnant. Now that the child is a bit older, she thinks he looks like me. Ive seen pictures and I dont believe so, but who knows. I dont want any part of this and teh supposed father has taken that role. Now years later she springs this on me and wants a paternity test. I dont feel comfortable with this.

One reason (wrong of me or not) I wouldnt want to be a part of a childs life if its out of wedlock. This is why Im for abortions and had she really thought it was mine back then I would have been for it. Second reason, shes doing it for selfish reasons, to clear her thoughts. The dad doesnt know anything other. Child is too young to wonder or ask.

Am I in the wrong to decline paternity test?

 

[speed dawg]

Yes! Get away from this situation, now. Do you know the child? Do you have any interaction at all with it? Of course you don't. Therefore it isn't your child, and you are not its father. Just because it may or may not be your genes does NOT make it yours. This child has a father. Walk away and leave them be.

YOU have made a terrible mistake by being friends with this chick. She's with another guy, let her go. Don't act like it's all her fault. I'm suspecting you're orbiting around in the background.

LEAVE THEM ALONE. DISAPPEAR.

 

[Romjuan]

Thanks for the input and advice. I agree with you 100%. Ironically, im not orbiting her, since shes been with this guy i dont talk to her.