"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Past AFC ways put into use!

Whatevs

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*If this belong's in discussion rathter than tips, please move it. Thanks*

Dont read without commenting. You either aggree, or don't

So back when I was more of an AFC, I developed friendships with a good number of attractive chicks. Maybe this is common sense, but I have never thought of this. Since theyre friends and nothing more, I am able to talk to them and use them sort of as wingmen.

How? By having them pretend theyre attracted to me around strangers/girls I'm trying to attract. And theyre totally down..
This 21 year old HB8 (I'm 17 btw) to put some flirty comments on my myspace, and I'm going to talk to more of my HB friends as well.
Also, having pics up on myspace of touchy feely **** with HB's could probably work too.

The reason I think this could work is because my HB friends are presenting pre-approval. and girls are attracted to guys who have been pre-approved.

If I'm workin on a chick, and she see's me with HB's flirty and stuff, I believe that she'll be like "WHAT? Who's this *****? OH Haaaaaaaaaaaail no!" as well as being more comfortable to go with it as I am pre-approved.

Not only on myspace though, out at a dance or a club I'm sure theyd be down to act like my girlfriend.


What do you guys think? I want some input. Is this just ridiculous? Or is it a good idea?

Seeyaaaaaaaa


Oh and it's an excuse to get all touchy with these HB's if nothing else.. heh :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PRiSM92289

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woudln't they discuss it behind youre back and laugh at you though?

^ that is unless you are then pulling chicks
 

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Putting up pics of you with HBs that are touchy feely may lead the girls to think that you are a player. You can show yourself having female friends (recommended by David Deangelo) or a picture with your friends hanging out, doing some fun stuff, even a picture of you and your mom to show you guys have a close relationship, girls love that.
 

Monkey D. Luffy

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what the hell does AFC mean?
 

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Whatevs said:
What do you guys think? I want some input. Is this just ridiculous? Or is it a good idea?
I think this is someone elses idea. Why do I think this? Because I've read it more than once from different free newsletters as I'm sure you have.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Monkey D. Luffy said:
what the hell does AFC mean?
Average Frustrated Chump...and I'd be worried as hell that the females I was tryin to pull would find out about this sort of thing and make me look like a loser.
 

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ValleyDJing said:
and I'd be worried as hell that the females I was tryin to pull would find out about this sort of thing and make me look like a loser.
The problem with the op is he's asking his friends to do this when all he needs to do is just go out with them and have fun.
 

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ValleyDJing said:
I'd be worried as hell that the females I was tryin to pull would find out about this sort of thing and make me look like a loser.
I dont know why theres any reason to be worried... I wouldnt be.




Slevin said:
The problem with the op is he's asking his friends to do this when all he needs to do is just go out with them and have fun.
I completley agree man, but if you specifically talk to your friends, they will specifically do certain things.




Slevin said:
I think this is someone elses idea. Why do I think this? Because I've read it more than once from different free newsletters as I'm sure you have.
Havent seen this idea before, it is likley someone has thought of it before though.


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Thanks for the input guys, appreciated
 

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I guess thats pretty good.

but how about having sex with your hot friends.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I dont think it necessarly has to be skecthy at all.

Youre out, one of your hot friends stays close to you and arms around eachother..

I dono I guess it depends.
 
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