"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Passive income as a teenager

TheNewGuy

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Reading the "How much money would you be satisfied with?" thread and a few of the smarter people on here bought up passive vs. earned income. The first thing I think of when I think of passive income is investing. Stocks, FOREX, etc. These are possible to do as a teen... but not as feasible as when you are older.


So what are some good passive income ideas for a 16 year old, with a couple grand in capital?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok here is what I did when I was 16 that has given me the "edge" against anyone else who is 18 today,two years later. I don't know how I realized this,but when I was 16 I wasn't into that whole mp3,iPod,shoe,basically anything high schoolers/young adults are into. I alway looked any purchase over $50 this way, "Where is this (object your spending your money on) going to be in 6 months or a year?"...Think about it.

Isn't there a new iPod every 6 months or so?

I never even bought a mp3 player or iPod.

How about these Jordan's that everyone has to have?

These shoes go outdated faster then anything. Instead buy some K Swiss classics,or some classic shoes,ones that are always "in".

With the money I saved and threw in the bank I "invested" it in my small eBay operation I had for two summers. I have been playing the guitar for 4 years now,so I know my way around the gear. I learned how to fix ALOT on the amps and how to troubleshoot them as I restored an amp on my own(Ampeg V-40). I would travel around the northern California region and buy amps,old vintage amps,and if they needed fixing I would restore them. I would then sell them around town and on eBay across the world.....

Two years later I bought my first car,on my 18th birthday as a present to myself I bought my dream car, a Porsche Boxster. Do you know how good it feels knowing that I'm the one who brought the previous owner down in price,saved the money and have paid for the car 100% by myself!!!
Alot of the money I used to buy the car came from my eBay job,which was funded by my savings from not buying "materialistic" things in high school.

Now that I have a car that I'm TRUELY satisfied with,I dont need to tune it or anything Im really happy with it from the get go,this allows me to save. Today I'm 18 and saving to buy a house,and it looks like I may be able to hit my goal which is have a down payment by the age of 22. I could just sell my car and use that as a down payment,but I dont think so.

I'm considering investing in stocks or Forex,but I'm not too informed on Forex. Please let me know how that turns out for you if you decide to do it. Do you mind telling me what passive income versus earned income is?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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blinkwatt said:
Ok here is what I did when I was 16 that has given me the "edge" against anyone else who is 18 today,two years later. I don't know how I realized this,but when I was 16 I wasn't into that whole mp3,iPod,shoe,basically anything high schoolers/young adults are into. I alway looked any purchase over $50 this way, "Where is this (object your spending your money on) going to be in 6 months or a year?"...Think about it.

Isn't there a new iPod every 6 months or so?

I never even bought a mp3 player or iPod.

How about these Jordan's that everyone has to have?

These shoes go outdated faster then anything. Instead buy some K Swiss classics,or some classic shoes,ones that are always "in".

With the money I saved and threw in the bank I "invested" it in my small eBay operation I had for two summers. I have been playing the guitar for 4 years now,so I know my way around the gear. I learned how to fix ALOT on the amps and how to troubleshoot them as I restored an amp on my own(Ampeg V-40). I would travel around the northern California region and buy amps,old vintage amps,and if they needed fixing I would restore them. I would then sell them around town and on eBay across the world.....

Two years later I bought my first car,on my 18th birthday as a present to myself I bought my dream car, a Porsche Boxster. Do you know how good it feels knowing that I'm the one who brought the previous owner down in price,saved the money and have paid for the car 100% by myself!!!
Alot of the money I used to buy the car came from my eBay job,which was funded by my savings from not buying "materialistic" things in high school.

Now that I have a car that I'm TRUELY satisfied with,I dont need to tune it or anything Im really happy with it from the get go,this allows me to save. Today I'm 18 and saving to buy a house,and it looks like I may be able to hit my goal which is have a down payment by the age of 22. I could just sell my car and use that as a down payment,but I dont think so.

I'm considering investing in stocks or Forex,but I'm not too informed on Forex. Please let me know how that turns out for you if you decide to do it. Do you mind telling me what passive income versus earned income is?
Thanks for the response. You seem like me... I own a Sansa m230 (better than iPod shuffle, half the price) and buy all my clothes at the factory stores (still get the brand name quality, with Hilfiger polos at $20 per). I've been throwing around some ideas to make more money (right now I'm working the average teenage job)

Passive income is money that you invest once and it keeps making profit with you barely working. An example is buying a house and then renting it out. Whereas earned income is what you were doing before, repairing/reselling amps.
 

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blinkwatt said:
Ok here is what I did when I was 16 that has given me the "edge" against anyone else who is 18 today,two years later. I don't know how I realized this,but when I was 16 I wasn't into that whole mp3,iPod,shoe,basically anything high schoolers/young adults are into. I alway looked any purchase over $50 this way, "Where is this (object your spending your money on) going to be in 6 months or a year?"...Think about it.

Isn't there a new iPod every 6 months or so?

I never even bought a mp3 player or iPod.

How about these Jordan's that everyone has to have?

These shoes go outdated faster then anything. Instead buy some K Swiss classics,or some classic shoes,ones that are always "in".

With the money I saved and threw in the bank I "invested" it in my small eBay operation I had for two summers. I have been playing the guitar for 4 years now,so I know my way around the gear. I learned how to fix ALOT on the amps and how to troubleshoot them as I restored an amp on my own(Ampeg V-40). I would travel around the northern California region and buy amps,old vintage amps,and if they needed fixing I would restore them. I would then sell them around town and on eBay across the world.....

Two years later I bought my first car,on my 18th birthday as a present to myself I bought my dream car, a Porsche Boxster. Do you know how good it feels knowing that I'm the one who brought the previous owner down in price,saved the money and have paid for the car 100% by myself!!!
Alot of the money I used to buy the car came from my eBay job,which was funded by my savings from not buying "materialistic" things in high school.

Now that I have a car that I'm TRUELY satisfied with,I dont need to tune it or anything Im really happy with it from the get go,this allows me to save. Today I'm 18 and saving to buy a house,and it looks like I may be able to hit my goal which is have a down payment by the age of 22. I could just sell my car and use that as a down payment,but I dont think so.

I'm considering investing in stocks or Forex,but I'm not too informed on Forex. Please let me know how that turns out for you if you decide to do it. Do you mind telling me what passive income versus earned income is?

Scary sh*t

Im about to turn 18, i also have an ebay business plus a website, and i drive a 2000 Mercedes s500
 

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Docs said:
I own a house, lol, bought at 18.
Gosh I wish I could live in Canada.
A quality home in a decent neighborhood here in California cost $300k(USD)....Thats for a 1400sqft,2 bedroom,1 bath house.
 
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Your best option is to spend.

You sound intelligent. You will have a good job at 22 when you finish college. No need to get rich now, thats just greedy.

Spend it and enjoy life.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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aftershock said:
Your best option is to spend.

You sound intelligent. You will have a good job at 22 when you finish college. No need to get rich now, thats just greedy.

Spend it and enjoy life.
Not gonna lie, I like this option :up:
 

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aftershock said:
Your best option is to spend.

You sound intelligent. You will have a good job at 22 when you finish college. No need to get rich now, thats just greedy.

Spend it and enjoy life.
This is why people like you will be employed by people like me. Hard working, no sense of saving and investing/creating passive income, and I don't have to pay you much because "it would just be greedy" for you to expect high pay. :)
 
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