"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Passion: One of the Keys To Self-Improvement

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As the Book of Shuma Gora talks about, passion is essential to achieving your goals. The Book of Pook touched on this as well. They say that those who live passionately do what they do for the sheer pleasure of it.
But there is something I'm struggling with.... I want to get ripped, but I don't like working out. I find it boring. I want to get a job, and I could see myself enjoying the work I would do, but I hate filling out applications to get there.
My question is, how do I learn to enjoy something I don't like, so it will be easier
to accomplish?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You don't have to love working out....but you should find ways to enjoy it.....music always helps me, especially the adrenaline pumping kind of music like music from the Rocky movies, that song The final Countdown and a lot of rap music....running turns into a party for me when i have good music...it just becomes really pleasurable and fun when i am breaking past the first limit of being tired and running on adrenaline...it feels better than sex at times in a different way...and gives you a ,oad of confidence to reach that state over and over again every time you work out...

Also, you can tie your working out to a sport or martial art or maybe dancing of some sort..find one that you like and that should help you become passionate about it...as far as you not wanting to fill out applications...every passionate person has to do a crapload of stuff they don't want to as well to get to where they want to be like anyone else...in fact i would say they do more because they tend to have bigger goals and have to shovel more crap in the beginning
 
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there is sacrifice in success. Maybe you have to sacrifice some pleasure to get the results you want. Cultivate your love of doing small tasks over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over. The real gift in achieving a dream is the character building you get from putting the blood sweat and tears into it and the sacrifice it takes to get there.

Success is an art form, and so is getting yourself motivated enough to get out of being average and moving up in life.

Ask yourself over and over "Why do I want to get ripped?" For the respect, character building, girls, for the way it will make me feel?
 
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