Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Passion of the booty

MichaelangelloB

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I've got this girl I've been going with for a while, and in the begining I was getting more butt than ash trays, I mean we were gettin it done like 5-6 times a week. And it was good. But all along she's kinda had moral convictions about it, ya know sayin its wrong, and that she wants too but she doesn't think she should. Now she's goin through this whole converting to Catholicism thing, which as a good bf I support, but it may mean the end of booty as we know it.

Now I love this girl but not just for her mind, if you catch my drift.


Advise?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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crackhead

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convince her that if its really love, then there is no need to wait until "formal" marraige

that crap is so outdated and lame

ask her, do you really need a formal paper that says were married to express our love? or some sh1t like that
 

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LOL who converts TO Catholicism in this century??

Seriously, though, it depends on what you want to do. If you're in it just for the tail, I'd just let her do what she wants and find another girl to give it up. I mean, persist to the point where she gives you an outright "no", not this, "I don't know if it's right" crap. And if she DOES throw up the "no", then find someone else.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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