"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Passion = Interesting Woman ?!

om1xr

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What's up DJs ?!

This's a very interesting thing i had figured out from my experiences with women, and because it's really rare when i meet an interesting girl that i want really to get to know her not just for sex ! but really get to know her as a person not just a vag to F"ck.

with no more talk i found out that a girl without PASSION is a boring woman no matter how hot/attractive she is.

And any REAL MAN who don't waste his time dealing with uninteresting stuffs/people/hobbies is going to dump her as soon as possible .

is there any one here that has a similar ideas ?!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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rhythmic

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I prefer talented girls, as in girls who can play a musical instrument (and I mean REALLY play). Means that they have a life of their own, have some degree of intellect, and more importantly some identity of their own that isn't dictated by their circumstances... In fact I wouldn't seriously date anyone who didn't have this quality. To me, it's how I know someone is human and interesting.

Not sure if this is what you're talking about, but I get the feeling it's the same sort of thing.
 

om1xr

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rhythmic said:
I prefer talented girls, as in girls who can play a musical instrument (and I mean REALLY play). Means that they have a life of their own, have some degree of intellect, and more importantly some identity of their own that isn't dictated by their circumstances... In fact I wouldn't seriously date anyone who didn't have this quality. To me, it's how I know someone is human and interesting.

Not sure if this is what you're talking about, but I get the feeling it's the same sort of thing.
^^ that's exactly what i mean, they must have something going on in their lives that they are passionate about.
 

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you guys make good points, never thought about that, a woman with no goals is a woman that will make you go through hell
 
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