backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I've been on this forum for a while. I've learned alot. I'm still learning. Life is a never ending jorney.
* Life is what you make it
* You make a decision every day to be happy or sad, pissed or excited. You make a decision, with everything you do, to fail or succeed. It's not one thing you do, but a combination of things, the small things, the passing up on the fries to loose weight, the doing thoose extra pushups, the cutting the TV off, the picking up the newspaper.. that makes you who you are at the end of the day
* The more comfortable I was with myself, the more comfortable women were around me. Alot of guys completely miss the big picture. You have to start over. you have to become comfortable with everything about yourself. When you are starring down a 5'9 woman that's nothing but long legs, blonde hair and ass with a perfect face, every last thing you don't like about yourself comes out at that point in time. This forum can't help you then. That's why alot of you still are lost. It's not a formula. It's fixing yourself.
* Speaking of, the more confident in myself, better person I became, the less it mattered what I did around women.
* No woman worth her salt wants a dumb man. Educate yourself
* When life gives you grapes.. make purple drink
My life changed for the better when I decided I wasn't going to let my problems be problems anymore.
* 99% of the stuff you worry about will never come fruition
* I don't like to talk about how much money I have, it's an uncomfortable subject for me. I will say this however... when you have money, I promise you, you still have problems.. they just aren't the same problems as when you were living paycheck to paycheck. Living with money is harder than living without it.
* Learn how to smile. It makes everyone around you smile back. Have a happy outlook on life. The one thing no one can take from me, no one, is my mind. The will to live. The will to succeed no matter the consequences or the journey.
* there is no reason for a able bodied man to not be in shape.
* Travel. See the world. It's a gorgeous place. there is not a woman on earth more beautiful than nature. I remember when I was visiting Athens, and I was out visiting the sea... I actually had a tear come out of my eye it was so beautiful. Go visit the great Gothic chapels, the Colosseum. See some of the historic landmarks that make our world what it is today.
* A man who won't die for something, isn't fit to live
- Martin Luther King Jr
* The only men who fear death are the men who haven't lived
- Me
* Don't ever walk on eggshells.
* Learn to cook. Really cook. Better yet, learn to take care of yourself. Learn to be alone. Women are amazed that the fact that I can cook better than they can, I know how to iron, wash clothes, my house stays spotless (except for when my dogs start wrestling with each other and knock over crap), I know how to do little things like make a bed, cut the grass (even though I don't). These the little things women pick up on when they first come over your place. The first place 9 out of 10 women look when they come over your house is your toilet. The way you keep your toilet says a lot about you. do you keep a freshener in it, keep some type of solution in it (pine sol works great) to keep a good smell in the bathroom, or are there **** stains running down the side and piss all on the back of the toilet from where you missed? Is the tissue stocked? Does the toilet WORK?
* A good massage is better than sex
* Don't ever judge anyone. You have no idea what that person has been though or what they are going though. Just make a decision on if they need to be in your life or not and move on.
* Everything is fine in moderation
* I've experimented with drugs in the past, I won't harp on people who do them, but I personally prefer to be drug free.. I like having a clear mind. I like living to much to deaden my senses.
* For the love of god, learn your womens time of the month and make plans accordingly
* A good woman is like a cat. All women, no matter how hot, sexy, smokin or whatever you want to say... are female. They all like to be petted. they all like attention to varying degrees. They are all protective. They all will do just about anything to please their master (or in this case, BF, assuming the give a fvck about him)
* I've never met a woman who didn't like for a man to be in control. Never
* College Football is the best (Besides horse racing of course) sport on earth.
* Being a young black man who has a taste for petite leggy white/Hispanic/whatever is hot women, my race is only an issue if I make it so. I've never, to this day, had a woman not talk to me/fvck me because of my race. The list of reasons why I have failed in the past will take up this forum, but that's not one of them.
* You will never know who your real friends are until you go though real adversity. I have no real friends. I prefer it that way. I learned alot about myself and everyone else. I trust myself.
* Sometimes, your family can be the worst thing that can happen to you. they aren't always right. You have no ideas what their motives are at times.
* As busy as you are.. make time to see family. I hate my family for what they did to me, not hate but I don't talk to them very often.. and I still make sure my grandmother sees my face from time to time, even if I have to fly back half way across the country. when your grandparents get that old (70 +), their grandkids are what they live for. you calling your grandmother can make her day, her week or her month.
* Speaking of, women look CLOSELY how you treat your mother. Are you in awe of her, or do you curse at her? Do you talk bad about her? Do you respect her? I won't get into my mom but I will never speak ill of my mother to anyone who I haven't known for years. My old best friends don't know half the crap you guys know. but I'm 24 and for me it's still "yes mam, no mam"... but she respects the fact that I am grown. I don't curse at my mother and I treat her with respect when i talk to her. She's my mother. Me and my dad on the other hand chase ass together
* last but not least: I'd rather die free than be a fat slave
* Life is what you make it
* You make a decision every day to be happy or sad, pissed or excited. You make a decision, with everything you do, to fail or succeed. It's not one thing you do, but a combination of things, the small things, the passing up on the fries to loose weight, the doing thoose extra pushups, the cutting the TV off, the picking up the newspaper.. that makes you who you are at the end of the day
* The more comfortable I was with myself, the more comfortable women were around me. Alot of guys completely miss the big picture. You have to start over. you have to become comfortable with everything about yourself. When you are starring down a 5'9 woman that's nothing but long legs, blonde hair and ass with a perfect face, every last thing you don't like about yourself comes out at that point in time. This forum can't help you then. That's why alot of you still are lost. It's not a formula. It's fixing yourself.
* Speaking of, the more confident in myself, better person I became, the less it mattered what I did around women.
* No woman worth her salt wants a dumb man. Educate yourself
* When life gives you grapes.. make purple drink
My life changed for the better when I decided I wasn't going to let my problems be problems anymore.* 99% of the stuff you worry about will never come fruition
* I don't like to talk about how much money I have, it's an uncomfortable subject for me. I will say this however... when you have money, I promise you, you still have problems.. they just aren't the same problems as when you were living paycheck to paycheck. Living with money is harder than living without it.
* Learn how to smile. It makes everyone around you smile back. Have a happy outlook on life. The one thing no one can take from me, no one, is my mind. The will to live. The will to succeed no matter the consequences or the journey.
* there is no reason for a able bodied man to not be in shape.
* Travel. See the world. It's a gorgeous place. there is not a woman on earth more beautiful than nature. I remember when I was visiting Athens, and I was out visiting the sea... I actually had a tear come out of my eye it was so beautiful. Go visit the great Gothic chapels, the Colosseum. See some of the historic landmarks that make our world what it is today.
* A man who won't die for something, isn't fit to live
- Martin Luther King Jr
* The only men who fear death are the men who haven't lived
- Me
* Don't ever walk on eggshells.
* Learn to cook. Really cook. Better yet, learn to take care of yourself. Learn to be alone. Women are amazed that the fact that I can cook better than they can, I know how to iron, wash clothes, my house stays spotless (except for when my dogs start wrestling with each other and knock over crap), I know how to do little things like make a bed, cut the grass (even though I don't). These the little things women pick up on when they first come over your place. The first place 9 out of 10 women look when they come over your house is your toilet. The way you keep your toilet says a lot about you. do you keep a freshener in it, keep some type of solution in it (pine sol works great) to keep a good smell in the bathroom, or are there **** stains running down the side and piss all on the back of the toilet from where you missed? Is the tissue stocked? Does the toilet WORK?
* A good massage is better than sex
* Don't ever judge anyone. You have no idea what that person has been though or what they are going though. Just make a decision on if they need to be in your life or not and move on.
* Everything is fine in moderation
* I've experimented with drugs in the past, I won't harp on people who do them, but I personally prefer to be drug free.. I like having a clear mind. I like living to much to deaden my senses.
* For the love of god, learn your womens time of the month and make plans accordingly
* A good woman is like a cat. All women, no matter how hot, sexy, smokin or whatever you want to say... are female. They all like to be petted. they all like attention to varying degrees. They are all protective. They all will do just about anything to please their master (or in this case, BF, assuming the give a fvck about him)
* I've never met a woman who didn't like for a man to be in control. Never
* College Football is the best (Besides horse racing of course) sport on earth.
* Being a young black man who has a taste for petite leggy white/Hispanic/whatever is hot women, my race is only an issue if I make it so. I've never, to this day, had a woman not talk to me/fvck me because of my race. The list of reasons why I have failed in the past will take up this forum, but that's not one of them.
* You will never know who your real friends are until you go though real adversity. I have no real friends. I prefer it that way. I learned alot about myself and everyone else. I trust myself.
* Sometimes, your family can be the worst thing that can happen to you. they aren't always right. You have no ideas what their motives are at times.
* As busy as you are.. make time to see family. I hate my family for what they did to me, not hate but I don't talk to them very often.. and I still make sure my grandmother sees my face from time to time, even if I have to fly back half way across the country. when your grandparents get that old (70 +), their grandkids are what they live for. you calling your grandmother can make her day, her week or her month.
* Speaking of, women look CLOSELY how you treat your mother. Are you in awe of her, or do you curse at her? Do you talk bad about her? Do you respect her? I won't get into my mom but I will never speak ill of my mother to anyone who I haven't known for years. My old best friends don't know half the crap you guys know. but I'm 24 and for me it's still "yes mam, no mam"... but she respects the fact that I am grown. I don't curse at my mother and I treat her with respect when i talk to her. She's my mother. Me and my dad on the other hand chase ass together
* last but not least: I'd rather die free than be a fat slave
