"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So im in this computer class and the teacher is strict against talking. I was wondering what you guys think of "passing notes" to talk to her? I cant talk to her afterclass because my friend takes me to school and back, so when the class is over, he pretty much leaves immediately, so i cant really get a moment to talk to her.

what do you guys think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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No point in just passing notes then not talking to her after, thats kind of the point of notes.

Just try work it out one day so he doesn't take you home instead someone else does. I'm sure it happens some days but you don't wanna ask her out to movies or something or for her number with notes, it's not good. Pass notes but you still kinda have to talk to her.
 
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My advice would be to talk to your friend. Your friend might not even realize what he's doing. Just pull him aside one day and say, "There's this girl in my computer class- I want a chance to talk to her afterschool one day, but you always leave right away. Is there a chance we could stay a few minutes later one day?" He'll understand.
 
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