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Passed up on women for a video game

Knight of Roses

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I was building a 4 girl rotation before the new Amazon studios game, "New World" hit September 28th. Since then, I been hooked. Passed up on these girls several times so that I could focus on leveling my character.

Yeah, sounds nerdy as hell. But you know what? F**k it.

I'm at mental peace, my bank account looks nice with all the cash I'm saving, and my mind is taking a break from all the emotional bulls**t these women brought to my world.

Take a break fellas, it feels nice.
 

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I was building a 4 girl rotation before the new Amazon studios game, "New World" hit September 28th. Since then, I been hooked. Passed up on these girls several times so that I could focus on leveling my character.

Yeah, sounds nerdy as hell. But you know what? F**k it.

I'm at mental peace, my bank account looks nice with all the cash I'm saving, and my mind is taking a break from all the emotional bulls**t these women brought to my world.

Take a break fellas, it feels nice.

Once you start finding success you start to realize women are all replaceable. Just had a nice looking one over here for the past two days and i literally had to kick her out this morning. She was begging to stay when i called the uber. Had to get her bags together for her and everything. It's nice to have your own space and do your own thing in between the escapades. Just want to have a quiet day at the beach by myself without having to talk every minute.
 

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I was building a 4 girl rotation before the new Amazon studios game, "New World" hit September 28th. Since then, I been hooked. Passed up on these girls several times so that I could focus on leveling my character.

Yeah, sounds nerdy as hell. But you know what? F**k it.

I'm at mental peace, my bank account looks nice with all the cash I'm saving, and my mind is taking a break from all the emotional bulls**t these women brought to my world.

Take a break fellas, it feels nice.
The best decision I've ever made in my life was to quit playing video games when I was in my early 20's. Video games are highly addictive and are a colossal waste of time.
 

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The best decision I've ever made in my life was to quit playing video games when I was in my early 20's. Video games are highly addictive and are a colossal waste of time.
heh depends, really everything we do is a colossal waste of time, we do things we like, that is all

thing here is to the op right now he is putting something else as more important then woman, knowing how to use this it will only be helpfull for him in the long run
 

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I was building a 4 girl rotation before the new Amazon studios game, "New World" hit September 28th. Since then, I been hooked. Passed up on these girls several times so that I could focus on leveling my character.

Yeah, sounds nerdy as hell. But you know what? F**k it.

I'm at mental peace, my bank account looks nice with all the cash I'm saving, and my mind is taking a break from all the emotional bulls**t these women brought to my world.

Take a break fellas, it feels nice.
Nice lol. You can get them whenever you want.
 

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The best decision I've ever made in my life was to quit playing video games when I was in my early 20's. Video games are highly addictive and are a colossal waste of time.
Indeed they are. Better invested time is to read books that will actually teach you something useful that can propel you forward.

Games are fun, don't get me wrong and while you might feel you have achieved something; the reality is that you have done nothing productive. It is just just entertainment which makes you passive.

I've uninstalled all games on my computer because they are too easy to turn on and they are a huge distraction.
 

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The best decision I've ever made in my life was to quit playing video games when I was in my early 20's. Video games are highly addictive and are a colossal waste of time.
Disagree, if your having fun there is nothing wrong with it as long as you don't go overboard. Video games are just a hobby.

Indeed they are. Better invested time is to read books that will actually teach you something useful that can propel you forward.

Games are fun, don't get me wrong and while you might feel you have achieved something; the reality is that you have done nothing productive. It is just just entertainment which makes you passive.

I've uninstalled all games on my computer because they are too easy to turn on and they are a huge distraction.
You don't need to be productive all day everyday, video games for an hour a day is perfectly fine. You can also play together with friends, i used to even play with my girlfriend
 

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I was building a 4 girl rotation before the new Amazon studios game, "New World" hit September 28th. Since then, I been hooked. Passed up on these girls several times so that I could focus on leveling my character.

Yeah, sounds nerdy as hell. But you know what? F**k it.

I'm at mental peace, my bank account looks nice with all the cash I'm saving, and my mind is taking a break from all the emotional bulls**t these women brought to my world.

Take a break fellas, it feels nice.
I mean you are in your teens so it's okay to not think about sex, women, game, cojones, and rather do childish things. If you were a grown man, that's a different conversation.

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I was building a 4 girl rotation before the new Amazon studios game, "New World" hit September 28th. Since then, I been hooked. Passed up on these girls several times so that I could focus on leveling my character.

Yeah, sounds nerdy as hell. But you know what? F**k it.

I'm at mental peace, my bank account looks nice with all the cash I'm saving, and my mind is taking a break from all the emotional bulls**t these women brought to my world.

Take a break fellas, it feels nice.
You chose the stupidest game to get rid of 4 girls with.
 

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You don't need to be productive all day everyday, video games for an hour a day is perfectly fine. You can also play together with friends, i used to even play with my girlfriend
The problem is that many people don't play video games for an hour a day. Video games can be very addictive to some people. They are designed to draw you in and have you playing for hours on end. I mean look at the OP: he is giving up sex to "focus on levelling my character".
 
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I agree with Bokanovsky. I used to waste hours and hours playing games when in my teens to early 20s. I all of a sudden lost interest. They just didn't hold my attention any longer. I think video games are good for children, and early teens. Seems like I read a study where it was shown that they increase problem solving skills.
 

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The problem is that many people don't play video games for an hour a day. Video games can be very addictive to some people. They are designed to draw you in and have you playing for hours on end. I mean look at the OP: he is giving up sex to "focus on levelling my character".
If you play for hours a day, why not monetise the hobby by streaming it on twitch or YouTube? OP can also find a Gamer Girl, that way he has someone to play with and have sex with.

What you mean? That game is the sh!t
Final Fantasy 14
 

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If you play for hours a day, why not monetise the hobby by streaming it on twitch or YouTube? OP can also find a Gamer Girl, that way he has someone to play with and have sex with.



Final Fantasy 14
you and the other thousands wh think anyone would like to watch then play, now that is a wate of time.

games per see are far more interesting then films, and several games do teach things, I learned english playing games, several workings on physics and history also from games, age of empires 2 had a full enciclopedia about most units taken from real history, car racing games use real data and file to simulate then, its all there most info are sound, and like always you need to learn to filter, also several games tell a story far better then books.

again everything we do IS a waste of time, the issue here is doing what is fun and having a good time, playing game in a way it amke you stop doing anything else is bad, same for going after woman to the point it start to affect you negatively, everything taken without balance will hurt you, and that is even working on yourself sometimes you need to rest.
 

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You don't need to be productive all day everyday, video games for an hour a day is perfectly fine. You can also play together with friends, i used to even play with my girlfriend
I know, but it doesn't work.
I tried it all (Also played with buddies mostly) and lets be honest; "Just one hour" does most of the time end up being three hours or more.. xD
We all know the "just one more round"... lol :rofl:
 

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the issue here is doing what is fun and having a good time, playing game in a way it amke you stop doing anything else is bad, same for going after woman to the point it start to affect you negatively
Games are huge dopamine hits for the brain, (especially for us guys and equals with what social media is for girls. Around 83% of all Insta influencers are girls which says a lot.), which is also why it is so addictive and more attracting than reading a book and simply just work on your shi't which includes doing boring tasks sometimes.
 

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Games are huge dopamine hits for the brain, (especially for us guys and equals with what social media is for girls. Around 83% of all Insta influencers are girls which says a lot.), which is also why it is so addictive and more attracting than reading a book and simply just work on your shi't which includes doing boring tasks sometimes.
Exactly! Nailed it.

People do not understand that just like Porn and Social Media, Video Games are an easy escape from reality and therefore an easy/quick (and non-worked-for) dopamine fix. It is highly detrimental.

Needless to say, just another way the Media can make sure to keep you bamboozled and distracted and away from accomplishing anything meaningful or reaching any type of potential.

All those things are a simple representation of a piece of cheese being dangled in front of a rat.

As a teenager, it might be acceptable, but as a grown man, that is not acceptable. And not because this member is passing on women, women can also be a distraction but because he sees video games as a "mental peace". That is alarming.

But we are not here to judge, hopefully, he understands what a few of us are trying to say for his good. At the end of the day, to each his own.

Modern Man Advice
 
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