"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i'm in grade 10 and im planning on having a new years party... i need a few opinions

But first i'll tell you a bit about myself i go to school A and i have quite a few male friends as well as a few female friends that i chill with at school... but outside of school i hang out with a couple of kids from a dif high school. i'm on the varsity hockey team and i play for the local select team so i don't have much time to hang out with peeps outside hockey

kk so i've never had a party before but i've gone to quite a few... i live out in the middle of nowhere so getting busted isn't an issue... got the ok from the 'rents... so that's cool

now for the part that i need your help with... pops doesn't want it getting out of control so im not planning on getting kegs etc... and like i said i've got lots of friends that are guys but i want some broads at this party...

how do i get them there? get my buddies to spread the word p2p? cuz there's no school on right now so i can't invite many new pple that i don't know

or should i go with personal invites only... i'm a little worried about putting word out cuz i might get too many pple... or maybe noone will come and i'll look like a fag... advice please
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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the news of parties spreads like wildfire... no matter what.. its basically out of your control just get a good guy watching the door and if you dont want alcohool (crappy party) then watch what people bring in too... if you want broads then get to be friends with one of them so you can infiltrate the whole clique... works like a charm
 

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yeah so.. as for the alcohol should i buy a couple 24s and maybe sell it to some kids who don't bring their own... or should i just leave it up to them to get it... cuz i kno the gr 9's don't usually bring alcohol and i could sell it to em for a pretty high price... (they don't know what its worth) but if i do this i kno seniors will prob steal it

so buy cases or no?
 
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get handles.
a handle=42 shots[i think]. and a handle of cheaps hit goes for $15. thats more alcohol for ur money.
evan williams[cheap whiskey] and aristocrat vodka.
and u cna sell those for $25-30 to stupid freshman.
 

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To prevent stealing, you have to have a dedicated bartender. Also, buy some mixes for the Vodka and whatsuch, because not everyone can drink stright (I know I can't).

Some beer (cases) are also good to have, buy a lot of those red party cups and have the bartender pour beer into the cups. This prevents the occasional whipping of a beer bottle into the TV.

Transportation: They'll arrive somehow, you don't go out of your way to get them. YOU take the keys from everyone that walks in that drove. Write down their name and the model of the car they drove so you can give the correct car back. As for the end night, you should buy a breathalyser and test anyone that trys to get the car keys back. I know in Canada, the host is responsible for anything that happens...so ENSURE a DDriver is available.

Music: It's in another forum..look for it.

To Do: Drinking games, Poker, (swimming?), whatever else is suggested.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the straight whiskey might be a tough sell to the freshman because not a lot of em can handle it... but maybe i'll get a couple...

docs i think im going to go with your idea cuz every fight i see ends up having beer bottles thrown or beer bottles are dropped so cups are def a good idea

i think i'll get some bohemian (or some other cheap beer) and instead of $10 for all you can drink maybe something like $3 beer $2 shot

i've got some good playlists with some good dance music... as well as some local favourites (country) (heh i live in a small town.)

as for games... what would you suggest i've got some cheap poker chips ... 2 tables.. what are some other good games to play? i have a ping pong table... no pool table tho... i have a swimming pool but currently its frozen solid :down:
 

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beer pong, obviously.
only pvssies won't drink whiskey. its the manly-mans drink.
lol.

yo, get some vodka and make -JUNGLE JUICE- :D 2-3 handles fo vodka, buncha koolaid-mix[preferably only use one kind of koolaid mix]. add some water[sprite or somethign might be ebtter, but I've onyl ever used water here], and cut up all kinds fo fruit n **** n throw it in there.

dammit, i needa get drunk tonight.
 

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beer pong... that's the one where you put the cup of beer on the ping pong table right.? would someone like to go over the rules for me?

haha patrick that drink sounds sweet as soon as i can get out to the grocery store im going to get some koolaid and some vodka haha thanks for the tips
 
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