"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Party yesterday hehe fvckd up

sbgm

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Party Story
I FVCKEd UP BIG TIME

Hello! I was on a party yesterday and I would like to share some it for opinions. Hopefully you can learn something from my experience.

I was in a real party mood, and was quite much the center of attention very much of the time. I was the alpha male at the party.

There's two girls that I think are into me. One is a girl I had a crush on for two years, (Girl A) one year ago and one is this girls friend. (Girl B)

I flirt with both Girls A & B but Girl B is from another city and I want a steady relationship. I try to flirt with Girl A. We played a game, (she was a bit drunk) where we should stare into eachothers eyes so long as possible. We did this. We also kissed hands and she even licked my hand, with a very sexy look at her face.

But I can't decide if this girl plays hard to get or just doesn't want me. Everytime I get near to her, she rejects me.

After a while this drunk guy average looking (5/10) I'm probably 7/10 gets up to her and kisses her. Later I heard they made out in a bed.

So I was talking to Girl B and could havce fvcked her in an instant, but didn't cause I rather be with Girl A (I was a stupid fvck). So I didn't fvck Girl B nor Girl A. They left to another party and I went home.

What is my next move? Girl B lives in another city and I would like a steady relationship.

What should I do with Girl A? Right now I'm thinking about asking her out and talking and then saying honestly to her that I have a crush on her and see how it will go...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ease

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Sounds like you were using your brain instead of your penis.

Always a mistake.
 

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You are so right. Next time, No regrets. It's the ****ing worst feeling ever. I rather make a fool out of myself big time than not to take the chance...
 

CaptainJ

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I hate it when that sh1t happens. There's only one thing to learn from this, always seize the opportunity. If some average looking stranger can make out with the girl you're gamin, then so can you.
 
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