"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Party yesterday hehe fvckd up

sbgm

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Party Story
I FVCKEd UP BIG TIME

Hello! I was on a party yesterday and I would like to share some it for opinions. Hopefully you can learn something from my experience.

I was in a real party mood, and was quite much the center of attention very much of the time. I was the alpha male at the party.

There's two girls that I think are into me. One is a girl I had a crush on for two years, (Girl A) one year ago and one is this girls friend. (Girl B)

I flirt with both Girls A & B but Girl B is from another city and I want a steady relationship. I try to flirt with Girl A. We played a game, (she was a bit drunk) where we should stare into eachothers eyes so long as possible. We did this. We also kissed hands and she even licked my hand, with a very sexy look at her face.

But I can't decide if this girl plays hard to get or just doesn't want me. Everytime I get near to her, she rejects me.

After a while this drunk guy average looking (5/10) I'm probably 7/10 gets up to her and kisses her. Later I heard they made out in a bed.

So I was talking to Girl B and could havce fvcked her in an instant, but didn't cause I rather be with Girl A (I was a stupid fvck). So I didn't fvck Girl B nor Girl A. They left to another party and I went home.

What is my next move? Girl B lives in another city and I would like a steady relationship.

What should I do with Girl A? Right now I'm thinking about asking her out and talking and then saying honestly to her that I have a crush on her and see how it will go...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ease

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Sounds like you were using your brain instead of your penis.

Always a mistake.
 

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You are so right. Next time, No regrets. It's the ****ing worst feeling ever. I rather make a fool out of myself big time than not to take the chance...
 

CaptainJ

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I hate it when that sh1t happens. There's only one thing to learn from this, always seize the opportunity. If some average looking stranger can make out with the girl you're gamin, then so can you.
 
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