"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Party or other social gathering: How to isolate the girl from the herd.

Evan_M

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To eventually get into her pants you'll have to isolate the girl from the pack.

This is advice in dealing with women in groups of three or more.

We know that women in large groups basically share the same brains. What one says often they will all agree with and they all "feel" the same communal emotions. They also all react similarly when confronted by a male trying to infiltrate the group. They know the Wolf in Sheep's Clothing fable as if it were the back of their hand. It's as if they combine their femininity into a super-power b*tch shield.

There is a weakness however and that is they all want the prize. Now you must convince them you are it.

Upon your approach you must initially disarm the herd to throw them off of your intended actions. The easiest approach to this is demonstrating your excellence but not in an arrogant or obvious way. Observational humor of your surroundings works best. Do not attempt to poke fun or neg-hit one of the flock until you have distanced her from the herd otherwise the others will quickly come to her aid. Remember to initially treat them all as equals though you may have already chosen your prey.

After you have demonstrated your excellence and you notice that you have them under your charms you now proceed to work at them by process of elimination. The best way to do this is doubling them up. Here is the catch: avoid focusing on your chosen prey. Let's say there are three girls and you have chosen your prey; take the two less desirable ones and start playing them off one another. It's best to work backwards with the least desirable females. This also helps you in warming up. As long as you are consistent you will find the females gradually becoming jealous of the singling out of attention. It will also confuse them. The less attractive ones will ask "why is he giving me attention over so and so when she's prettier and all the guys usually like her?" the attractive one and usually the one you're after will ask "why is he not giving me all the attention?!" and even better "He's so different from all the other guys."

This is where they start separating themselves from the herd and their super-power b*tch shield erodes. Do not neg-hit these girls but play up ****y and funny. They'll attempt to sh*t test you in return but you'll quickly shoot it down with any of the available methods.

To hold your prey's attention however you'll need to give her some non-verbal attention. Hold off on the Kino and work with giving her sexy eye contact. Don't stare at her but make sure that you lock glances for at least 3-4 seconds. As you work this procedure and if you are doing it successfully you will have your prey attempting to engage you via flirtation. You know all the signs. This is when you will start to engage her back via inclusion. Don't give her much attention but make her aware of your intentions by giving her physical sexual feedback. A touch to the wrist while talking to one of the other girls is probably enough.

Now here's the difficult part. You need to now break away from the pack. This is not necessarily a number close if you are at a party or other social activity. If you plan on sticking around for awhile longer and will see these girls again later proceed to move on with a "I have some other people I want to talk with" type comment. If you're the typical Alpha this is much easier because you'll have other people coming up to you wanting your attention. Then leave. Simple and effective. Now you have the girl's attention left with some mystery, have stirred their emotions and most of all left them wanting more. If you did your job properly you'll probably become the momentary center of attention for their girly-gossip.

With that said if say you are leaving the party or the rest of the pack are leaving (girls almost always leave together) you'll need to initiate a dating proposal. This is as simple as "Hey I have some tickets to a (insert event), great seats and I want one of you girls for a date." Or even better if you brought up an action hobby or sport you participate in during your conversations ask if any of them want to join you. Just make sure you have a set date and time. Make it up last minute if you have to. You'll probably see at least one of them get excited. Proceed to get the number from the girl who gets the most excited. This may or may not be the girl you want to go out with. However if the girl you like shows the least bit of interest make sure to get her number too but not first. The more numbers the better because it will only make you look more desirable.

Now if everyone is still hanging around at the party and your previous engagement was successful you'll probabl notice the girls singling you out. Hopefully it will be the one you want. It works even better if she can see you demonstrating your excellence in front of another group preferably one that also includes boys and girls (the beta types). You don't want to look like a player. If you're good she will be sneaking up on you doing all the girly sexual things like brushing her boobs against you. Tease her a bit now with a neg-hit. If all of the things are going for you and you notice that you have successfully weened her from the herd it's time to be assertive and corner her. Ask her outside for a smoke or whatever, wherever there will be fewer people. Don't think you're going to get laid that night though. As I said girls will usually leave together and if the others catch you and her alone they'll probably push her on out the door. Now if you do it right you'll get the girl of your choice alone for a possible kiss close and a definate number. Just be discreet about it because the other girls will use their feminine persuasion to ****block you from ever talking to this girl again.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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dcfball

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wow you wasted alot of time typing that nonsense

push and pull really? it works? wow!
 

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If she's with a bunch of people, come up and ask if she wants a get some air. I'm sure she'll get the point :)
 

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Easy, start talking to her then start touching her it's all downhill after that if she takes to you touching her. Then if you dont know what to do after that....then...damn.
 

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This aint bad stuff. I can't tell you how many times a girls friend has ruined my pickups for me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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