"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Party Ideas

Don_Joffe

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Hey all, Im thinking of having a party on the date of 17 March( The date my GOAL and MY new year begins)
Does anyone have any ideas of ways I could make this party work? I want 10 guys and 10 girls. Work with that...I got a swimming pool, I love DOP, should their be speeches welcoming MY GOAL(no1 wil know wat it is), music? ANY IDEAS?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don_Joffe

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Im 18, the age bracket will be from age 16-20.
Cocaine? We want to all have a good memorable time but not a death event.
 

nw1512

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tone it down to a few pills each then.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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baracus

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
Im 18, the age bracket will be from age 16-20.
Cocaine? We want to all have a good memorable time but not a death event.
Ok. . . cocaine causes deaths. :rolleyes:

You don't know what you're missing.
 

Don_Joffe

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Any other party ideas? What alcohol should I serve? Should it be inside or outside? More ideas...
 

Dapper Swindler

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Last party I had I made a "buffalo wing bar". I got a couple bags of precooked wings from Walmart. Then I bought different sauces like barbecue, honey barbecue, bleu cheese, ranch, etc.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mojo604

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Man... first of all-
-Too many guys...
Unless a sausage fest is what you really want.

Some girls will ALWAYS "have to leave early", or "dont wanna get in trouble"- or *insert excuse to leave or not show up-here*.

Booze...
coolers for the ladies... and whatever cheap **** you can get for the guys lol. hel, tell em to bring their own ****. haahah save a buck or two.
anyways..i doubt this will help :D . good luck.
 

ScrewIt

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someone will bring the weed, there's always someone.

roll it up and stuff there. and if you're lucky someone might bring X...thats if you're lucky
 

Mojo604

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Speaking of weed.

May I suggest a hotbox session in the bathroom... Its ****in great.
Put a towel on the bottom and top of the door when you close so none of the fumes can escape.:cool: ..teach those fumes a lesson...
 

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If you can orchestrate it right, and everyones tipsy, the infantile ideas go off great. Wasabi eating contests, truth or dare, sports, etc.
 

Climax

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hmmm.....

Don Joffe: Get some of the latest tunes playing in the lounge with the speakers facing your garden where the pool is... then get a table where u will put all the drinks onto (alchoholic AND non alchoholic)... then set up a table with food etc, there is space for people to dance in your garden by the pool, and if people want to swim, then great. In regards to the amount of people, we need there to be more girls than guys, which means that if there are 10 guys, we want to get about 14 odd chicks at least. Set up a hubbly outside too for those who wanna smoke it up, and yes, there will probably be someone who will bring some weed with (Tristan:p) No speaches are required for this party, all the people know is that they are there for the launching of the MP, thats all. We can play drinking games, have some cards available for some strip poker or something... that should pretty much do the job;)


Laterz...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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