Party Girls

[nubedj]

This is my first post at sosuave.

So I'm going to this girl's sweet 16 party (probably club type environment) this weekend. My question to you DJ's out there is how do you hook up with random girls at this type of thing? I know many who can do it, but I have never managed to.

I'm a junior, and the definition of an AFC.

I need your help.

 

[Patrick124]

I managed to do exactly that sunday night.
All i did was find a girl, anda sk her to dance. we danced abit[grinding] and i kissed the back of her shoulder/neck area a few times. she backed us up into a wall, turned aroudn n we madeout abit.

If i had wanted more, all I woulda had to have done was sya "aight, lets go upstairs" or somethin.
but i didn't. lol.

 

[kev me723]

The definition of an AFC huh? Well good thing you are going to a party. If there's alcohol, it will be that much easier, if not that's ok too.

First of all don't be a pvssy. That's the first step. I have yet to meet a girl that I don't consider stupid. That's right, as in dumb. Intelligence or otherwise. Doesn't matter how hott they are, don't let them intimidate you.

At the party, grow big nuts, tease girls, make conversation. Just make moves from there.

Also read the bible, good luck

 

[komplex]

Originally posted by nubedj
This is my first post at sosuave.

So I'm going to this girl's sweet 16 party (probably club type environment) this weekend. My question to you DJ's out there is how do you hook up with random girls at this type of thing? I know many who can do it, but I have never managed to.

I'm a junior, and the definition of an AFC.

I need your help.

Okay man here's an ALTERNATIVE way to do it. If you're not the kind of guy that can conversate and compete with music.

BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION. At a party full of music how the hell do you do that?

Simple... on the dancefloor, LET GO OF YOUR EGO, get a pawn (a chick(s) you use to get other chicks) and dance with her however the hell you want, and act like you're the man, because if you do this, You will be the man! By having the chick with you, you will look more attractive to other women (pre-selection). So invest in a dance buddy before the party that's willing to have a great time with you.

Yes you can be ****y and Funny by the way you dance... ****y by acting like you're the man, and funny by doing eccentric outrageous dances.. YOU WILL BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION guaranteed... now that you have all the girls attention, when that sweet 16s end, converse, and get the numbers. It's that simple.

Even if you have competition (a badass dancer), the only way to beat him is to feel great about yourself and to do your eccentric dances.

I know this sounds REALLY CRAZY, but remember this will only work if you BELIEVE it will work. If you start doing moron dances and act pretty insecure, you'll just be the clown/loser of the party.

 

[nubedj]

komplex,

I have tried that before (acting somewhat reckless and ****y), but it hasn't worked. When other guys do something stupid, they get positive attention, but when I do, people just laugh. I am not much worse looking than other guys, but I have built up somewhat of a bad rep.

Also, I never really grinded before, any advice?

 

[komplex]

Originally posted by nubedj
komplex,

I have tried that before (acting somewhat reckless and ****y), but it hasn't worked. When other guys do something stupid, they get positive attention, but when I do, people just laugh. I am not much worse looking than other guys, but I have built up somewhat of a bad rep.

Also, I never really grinded before, any advice?

you weren't a firm believer. look at how you're talking.... insecurity everywhere "when other guys do something stupid, they get positive attention, but not me". when you're dealing with something soooo out there, the only way it will work is if you believe. They're firm believers, you're not.

The other thing you need to have for it to work is a pawn working in your favor. If you don't have at least one chick dancing with you from the beginning hyping you up for the other girls, then you'll just be partying alone like a rockstar. lol

hey i used to be a loser when i started highschool, you can turn your bad rep around.. and girls will say "wow I didn't know you were so fun, ect" Most of your bad rep is in your head. Girls are too busy paying attention to the interesting guys that they don't have time to worry about how lame losers really are. So you can easily change your rep. BE A BELIEVER... quit worrying... read the "how to be an alpha male" article on this site. You'll be amazed at how girls can easily sniff out who's got power and who doesn't in any given situation. You can try every technique till you're blue in the face, but if you don't comminicate that power through your body language, NOTHING i tell you will work for you.

 

[Jay-X]

Originally posted by nubedj

When other guys do something stupid, they get positive attention, but when I do, people just laugh.

i notice that this happens to lots of people. the most respected guy i know acts like a jackass all the time and does very dumb sh1t... though, everybody is afraid to fùck with him (he's not even tall and big, he's like 6'0, 170 lbs, maybe even smaller than that)... even when he says something stupid (24/7), everybody laughs and nobody has the nerves to tell him it was stupid...

another friend of mine acts like this and everybody loves him for that...


another one is EXACTLY like them and he's perceived as a guy who pretends to be funny but isn't... dunno why, to me they are identical

 

[kev me723]

well if you don't want to, you don't have to be the center of attention. Grinding is a good thing and 9 out of 10 girls will do it with you as long as you aren't a total puss. All you have to do is move your feet back and fourth to the bass/beat of the music, start with one hand on her stomache/back (depening on which way she's facing) while you're doing it. After a little while, you can move to both hands if you want. Later on, move your hands a bit and you can feel her up after some time of doing this. Great way to get 'friendly' without having to do much talking at all. Plus I think it's fun as hell and pretty easy.