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Master Don Juan
I've been recently seeing a girl who I met in a party a couple weeks ago (drunk out of my mind). Anyway, we end up getting together a couple times as she seemed to like me. Since then we've slept together, had sex, etc. However, we're not really in any sort of "defined" relationship.
Now that the situation is clear, here's some details about her. First off, she's HOT. Not just attractive. Gorgeous. She's naturally hot, knows it, and enjoys dressing and acting the part. But don't get the wrong idea; despite the conventional stereotypes of the hot, *****y, stuck-up, girl, she really isn't. In fact, she's not really *****y or annoying at all.
So far so good. Let's go deeper. As mentioned earlier, we met at a party. Well, she's one of those girls who just LOVES to party. She also LOVES to drink. Weekends (and sometimes weekdays) means partying, period. But what does this involve? Well, as she is a hot chick, and where there are plenty of drunk, horny guys, I feel she does her share of mingling. Maybe not f*cking guys, but drunken KINO, kissing, etc. Obviously, when a hot chick goes to a party and gets drunk with a bunch of other drunk/horny guys, things aren't going to end with cultivated conversations.
I know this, obviously, because I've been to my share of parties, both with and without her. She's not the party slut by any means, but she's definately not a wallflower, either.
So here's the question. Despite us hitting it up together a few times now, I really don't know if I could have a relationship with a girl like this. Knowing that she's going out, getting drunk, and having a bunch of guys wrap arms around her every week just doesn't boad well for me. She has a lot of guy "friends" who we party with (as they're also the guys I know who I often party with). Also, I really don't like being at a party with her anyway. First off, I have to notice all the other dudes eyeing her like hawks waiting to grope her, and secondly, it hurts my game of making out with random, loose girls.
But can a girl like this be relationship material, despite her party-hardy, drinking, nature? Or is it just a disaster waiting to happen if I let myself get attached to her for more than just occasional, weekly flings? If I get attached to her, I feel like I would have to deal with the fact that she's consistently going out, getting drunk, and hitting it up with guys every week. This seems like it could create a problem.
This brings up a bigger, broader question. Taking it as natural that many HOT girls also desire the attention gained at parties, clubs, and such, how should we deal with them?
Now that the situation is clear, here's some details about her. First off, she's HOT. Not just attractive. Gorgeous. She's naturally hot, knows it, and enjoys dressing and acting the part. But don't get the wrong idea; despite the conventional stereotypes of the hot, *****y, stuck-up, girl, she really isn't. In fact, she's not really *****y or annoying at all.
So far so good. Let's go deeper. As mentioned earlier, we met at a party. Well, she's one of those girls who just LOVES to party. She also LOVES to drink. Weekends (and sometimes weekdays) means partying, period. But what does this involve? Well, as she is a hot chick, and where there are plenty of drunk, horny guys, I feel she does her share of mingling. Maybe not f*cking guys, but drunken KINO, kissing, etc. Obviously, when a hot chick goes to a party and gets drunk with a bunch of other drunk/horny guys, things aren't going to end with cultivated conversations.
I know this, obviously, because I've been to my share of parties, both with and without her. She's not the party slut by any means, but she's definately not a wallflower, either.
So here's the question. Despite us hitting it up together a few times now, I really don't know if I could have a relationship with a girl like this. Knowing that she's going out, getting drunk, and having a bunch of guys wrap arms around her every week just doesn't boad well for me. She has a lot of guy "friends" who we party with (as they're also the guys I know who I often party with). Also, I really don't like being at a party with her anyway. First off, I have to notice all the other dudes eyeing her like hawks waiting to grope her, and secondly, it hurts my game of making out with random, loose girls.
But can a girl like this be relationship material, despite her party-hardy, drinking, nature? Or is it just a disaster waiting to happen if I let myself get attached to her for more than just occasional, weekly flings? If I get attached to her, I feel like I would have to deal with the fact that she's consistently going out, getting drunk, and hitting it up with guys every week. This seems like it could create a problem.
This brings up a bigger, broader question. Taking it as natural that many HOT girls also desire the attention gained at parties, clubs, and such, how should we deal with them?
