"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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party game tips?

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My game has improved a LOT recently and I feel I'm in a really good spot when interacting with girls 1on1 or even in a social environment IF I KNOW THEM, but the fresh-meat-party-environment is still something I really need to work on. I've had a few ONS but they're nothing I brag about. I don't go to parties as much as I go on dates so that could be one reason.

I guess the problem I run into is this:

In a 1on1 situation, regardless of where it is, I can (and do) lay on the kino THICK on every single girl I hang with and it goes like clockwork. However at a crowded house party with almost no isolation areas I can't really do that and in the past I ended up hanging around one chick way too long.

Anyone here regularly attend parties with good results? Got some tips? I got one coming up this weekend I'm considering going to. Also, I know a lot of people here so I'll already have social proof - it's going forward where I need help.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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there's no formula I know of, if you get stuck with one chick, make way to the bathroom or go get another drink... If you stand with the winning posture, people will be drawn to you...chicks, other guys who you can use as a group base for your pursuits. I think you probably know this already.
 
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Don't go to the party expecting to hook up with girls. Go out with the mentality that you're out to have fun. I'm willing to bet money if you follow through and actually believe it, then the girls will come to you. When they do, don't dork it up. Continue to be fun and non-challant about hooking up and everything will fall into place naturally.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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