"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Partner up or not?

yuppaz

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Hey all,

This is a business / friend question. I am starting a magazine and have a friend who I think is excellent at building relationships who wants to be involved. He is very lacking in the social media area, but tells me he can bring some money to the table and also wants to help with content and setting up events too. He really has no idea about the magazine content. He stepped forward and said he would put in a graduating scale of up to 45 grand into the business in the next 9 months (I couldn't get a clear idea on what that meant, it sounded like as needed money promised up to that point, but to me that sounds like me begging for money as things go along and giving him an easy out of things aren't working). and would be a part of advertising growth, and social media outreach.

He wanted 40% of the business for this and promised I could buy back all the shares within 3 years for 14% of value if I wanted (I think he offered this to lessen potential risk for me if not working.

He later countered without me putting out a pefcentage with 25%.

For thos experienced with these matters, what are your thoughts? I could probably grow the business faster with capitol and with working with him, but I am concerned that I would be giving away the farm and giving my friend a free ride if things start going very well. He is very good with people but doesn't always make good decisions and that graduated deal makes me hesitate. I would prefer to sell shares for a value upfront so I know what I can budget.

Any help you can provide?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BeExcellent

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This should be moved to Wealth and Success probably...

It's all about value. Is what he is offering (45K and people skills) worth a high equity stake in your business?

Your solution depends on the answer to that question alone.

Potentially if you fail he looses his dinero. Go pay a few hundred dollars and meet with a partnership attorney. Get educated about what this deal is or isn't with somebody who does these type agreements for a living. It's money well spent.
 
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