Parties- Different Kinds of Situations

[Void]

Parties! Quite Different Than Normal Situations!

A. Most people aren't sober

B. Girls become sluttier

C. Feelings of no regret


Sounds like paradise right?


Only if your prepared!


You see in these kinds of situations, people aren't looking for connection, push/ pull, C/F, barely any IOI's, or what kind of "tactic" their going to use.

It's purely attempt and then fail or success.

Repeat on next girl.

Let me give you an example of what not to do...

At a party with only half the amount of girls than guys, lies a cheerleader looking for a man. So this girl "puts" herself out there and acts like a slvt. She says things like "who wants to fvck me?" And as soon as she says this twenty guys run over to her and say "Me! ME! MEEEE!!!!!!" Of course this girl can't screw twenty guys so no one ends up getting anything. The three decent looking girls look at them and say "this is boring," and leave the party. Even more girls get fed up and leave. At the end of the party there's still all the guys crowded around the one girl.

See the problem? You have one hot girl that's slvtty wanting a guy, but too many guys are there so she can't do anything. While this happens the decent girls get fed up and leave.

Void decides to hit up a party than turns out to have twice as many guys. So as he sees this slvtty girl he goes up and approaches her and notice he has ten guys following him. He goes up to this girl asks her if she wants to go upstairs and she says yes/no.

The reason I put yes/ no is to advocate that the outcome doesn't matter. At parties you can't be wondering what the outcome is, just like sarging. THAT'S the way to be..

The other thing you can do when you see an attention wh0re is to NOT focus on her. Is this going to get you this girl? NO!!!

By the way when somebody tells you that the way to get attention wh0res to want you is by NOT giving them attention, I guarantee you this will NEVER work. NEVER.

Attention wh0res want overwhelmingly confident men that give them attention in moderation. They want a lot of attention but you should give them as much attention as any other girl you want. In moderation.

Okay so back to the alternative at parties with an attention wh0re. If you see that 20 guys at a party want to screw one girl, just don't go after her. I know it's hard when you see how slvtty she is, and you're thinking wow thatd be so hot if I did her. Well, the chances are you won't. So Go find the lonely girls and talk to them for a minute then isolate. all the way.

Other Useful Tips

NEVER EVER GET TOO FVCKED UP THAT YOU CAN'T HOOK UP WITH A GIRL!

NEVER!!

Let me tell you a story

Okay so after this girl's sweet 16, I was doing okay. Feeling some buzz and pretty happy. You know why?

Well yeah, I drank but I also got a girl's number. When I got her number she said she wanted to hangout later that night because she was staying at the girl's house and I live close by.

So I call her around 12:30 and she's like YEAH let's met up.

So we meet up, and she wanted to smoke.

My friend had some so he pulls it out and we start.

So I do it, do some more, and all of a sudden I realized how bad I was tripping.

I look down and I start thinking "OMG SHOULD I HOOK UP WITH HER , I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!!"

My friend looks at me (he's not out of it) and he's like "dude arn't you going to go over there with _NAME OF GIRL_>"

And I look at him like "OMG" and start laughing.

So we do some more.

My friend, whom is a good man, says the same thing(why dont u go and hook up with void) to _name of girl_.

She says "yeah if he wants to."

At this point I'm like wayy tripping. I look at them and I'm just thinking OMGGGGGGGGG wtfff this is crazy.

Were nearing the end of the stuff and my friend says to _name of girl_ "okay I need some money for this."

She says "i dont have anyyy."

My friend looks at me then back at her and says "well you can give one of us a bl0wj0b. Except I have a girlfriend so..."

I look at him and am seriously at mental loss. I didn't know why everything was soo crazy.

This girl ACTUALLY says "yeah Ill do that."

So i once again just think of how nervous i am.

My friend gives up.

We finally make out.

It lasts 20 minutes, she has to go.

Tear jerking isn't it??

All I had to do was stand up and say "okay." When she said she'd give head.

Yeah. Wow. Pathetic on my part.

Just one of some stories where getting too messed up fvcks u over.

Yeah by the way if any of you have moral issues with what that girl would've done, I don't care.

The girl said she didn't want to pay us back in school, all she really wanted was c0ck.

NEVER GET TOO MESSED UP THAT YOU CAN'T HOOK UP.

Remember that.

Also this isn't really going to help you out but if people know your sober and you hook up with a drunk chick it kind of hurts your rep. Just an advisory.

When your drunk and can't get a boner or just too out of it to do girls it sucks. Believe me. Especially when a girl is just offering it to you.


Don't expect girls to be with one guy at a party

Girls at parties like to float around with different guys. At one party a girl hooked up nearly 7 guys. Yeah, don't get attached.

Just like guys, girls just want to freely be with whoever they want at parties. If your expecting to be with her the rest of the night, find a sober girl and make your sober too. Sober girls from what I've seen don't want to be with drunk guys.

As a rule of thumb, if a girl's throwing up, don't approach her.

You can tell when a girls a "good drunk," when they're just going wild.

When you're drunk it just makes you forget about what other people think and such. So don't feel bad if you hook up with a drunk girl.

At parties you want to be constantly moving. You want to just keep on walking around and seeing whats going on. Try to talk to as many girls as possible to estabilsh a connection. Then when you see them later when you're buzzed just go up and make out.

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Parties don't have the same rules as normal situations. The most important thing is to have no regrets and have fun. Most of the chances are once in a lifetime so don't give them up. You never want to be thinking "what if," about parties because you'll probably never have the same circumstances. Forget the push pull, c/f, speed seduction **** and just approach the girls. Remember that girls want it too...just give it a shot and you'll see.

 

[BluEyes]

Great post. Always helps to know this stuff, especially in HS.

At parties you want to be constantly moving. You want to just keep on walking around and seeing whats going on. Try to talk to as many girls as possible to estabilsh a connection. Then when you see them later when you're buzzed just go up and make out.

Yeaaahhh baby, this is my scene right here! I do this without thinking...Always have. For the first couple hours I walk around and chat with as many guys/girls as I can. Basically establishing comfort with everybody. After a couple hours(time flies when you're drinking and socializing), you can usually tell which girls are "available" and which are there only for attention(if they havent left by then). All you do then is simply walk up to the girl you picked out beforehand--they usually sit in groups--and start chatting and flirting. Make their friend laugh, and then tell her u want to talk to your target alone. This is important. If you try to lead the girl away from her friend, you'll get ****blocked in 2 seconds. However, if u politely tell her friend(s) to buzz off, from my experience they clear the scene quite promptly. Now you're isolated, and the rest is just too easy.

Remember:
Step 1) Establish comfort with as many people at the party as possible, especially all the potential targets. Remember to talk to guys as well as girls.

Step 2) Determine, while socializing, who is there just for attention and who is there to hook up, etc. This is called reading people, and guaging interest. Chances are, at a party, if you are dressed decent and look decent then you will get IOIs from the chicks who are willing to hook up.

Step 3) Later on when people are starting to wind down, when all of the heavy drinkers have passed out/staggered home, when the house owner is very stressed out, and most of the useless people have left: this is when you make your move. There is usually a point in every party where I finish a convo with someone and look around, noticing that the party is winding down. This is when you find a girl to settle down and work on. By now u should have chosen your target, and "figured her out". Now all u do is flirt with her, and you should be set to go for your own little party

If anybody wants some more info on parties: what to wear, how to act, who to look for, what to do, when to leave, when to make your move, etc etc etc then send me a PM. I've been to countless keggers and house parties, playing the part of the pothead who chills out back, the social butterfly, the player, the guy who walks in and picks a spot to make his stand for the whole nite, the host, the wingman, the bouncer(once), the guy who's with his gf, the guy there just to protect one of his girl friends from jackasses, the drunk puker, the passed out guy in the corner, the life of the party, the guy who takes his clothes off and streaks around the house....everything....god that brings back bad memories just writing this lol

Fvck it's late, im out. peace

 

[kickureface]

i think everone would appreciate it if you just posted it for us whats the point of pming?

 

[gymshorts]

yes, definitely

 

[happymeal88]

Social proof is important at a party, in my expirence. Walk in and talk to everyone, and act like you are the man. Go in, talk to the guys, high five people, and then work the girls. If you make a girl laugh at a party, and can keno her lightly then she is good to go for the most part.

 

[BluEyes]

Yeah social proof is huge...Not only does it tell the girls that you aren't a loser. It also helps you. Knowing tonnes of people at a party is great fun, and in turn that leads to success with every girl you meet.

Go in, talk to the guys, high five people, and then work the girls. If you make a girl laugh at a party, and can keno her lightly then she is good to go for the most part.

Meh...The real measure of success is if girls(sober) start to game YOU.