2xp
Don Juan
PARTIES, SOCIAL SITUATIONS
This came after I read slicker's cool story. I advise everyone to read it.
I thought about it and i'd like to point some things so that we can learn some things. i also added a few tips of my own:
1. HUMOUR is one of our best qualities/tools, it works even better than brute alpha playing.
2. UNEXPECTED, surprising actions (even short ones) attracts people and hot babes to you. in slickster's story, the speech and the gag attracted the HBs.
3. if you want to pick up HB10s, LIVE INSIDE AN ALPHA MALE ENVIRONMENT. how is that so :
- if you have a alpha wingman, you two will have twice more C&F lines, twice more looks from the chicks, you will learn faster the game.
- the competition train your abilities and puts you in the DJ mindset. there are no AFC model around
- you are most likely to meet HB10s (their girlfriends, GF's sisters, cousins, friend's friends....) than anywhere else, because they are attracted to alpha males.
- as some of you would say, it raises your Testosterone level. Evolving in a alpha male environnement is dangerous and more physical. more fights situations. more sports events. more talks about babes and sex.
- and last, but not least, being in an alpha male environment is just more healthy, because they are not nerds who spend their time in front of their computer, but outdoors.
that means it's a *very* good idea to befriend the people you are working out with, or join a local sports club (football, rugby, soccer, basketball, waterpolo or any other man's sports...) and hang out with these fellow sportsmen afterwards. invite them to a bar, to the beach to play volleyball on weekends, or for a BBQ. From my experience, even if they are married, you'll talk about sex and sports and babes and sports... how is that about being in a DJ mindset ?
4. when confronted to a conflict or resistance, one way to disarm your ennemy is to admit he is right, even exagerrate things, then laugh.
for example, the boyfriend says you try to steal his girlfriend, so just say : "hey, it's right, this girl is hot, but she is SooOO crAAzzzyyyYy...
I need your help" . normally, he just expects you to fumble something and then hit you straight in the face; BUT if you stay cool about it and if you try to become his friend, he doesn't know what to do. if he punches you, he will look like an sub-ape . I mean, you can't punch someone who makes a joke, do you?
another example would be let's say you are doing some C&F moves on a HB10. Then someone or even her says : "hey, what's that talk about sex" or something. i'd say like "it's so RIIighhhtt, damnn, i guess I am sOoo HOrnnyyy ... but looks at these boobs and that cool ass ... i cannot control myself ", then I act like a robot who looks automatically for the breasts and put my arms forward then do some BIG KINO on the girl like looking everywhere with your hands for a special something, while keeping the robot face. then i stop (know the limits) and burst laughing .... it works 100% and you get to touch another curvicious body . afterwards, i just talk about the guy/girl who told the remark, for a while. the sexual tension must be lowered until they get comfortable again. then i come back to C&F mode again.
so, always keep your coolness. Be friends the people you are with. If someone has problems, say "I understand you because this and that" or SAY/DO the things they are suspecting you of, smile, make a joke, and suggest to do some things with the guy/girl like saying "hey, let me buy you a drink, this is becoming interesting"
TIP : this comes naturally if you really have fun thus showing people that you are here to tell jokes and have fun. they will be convinced. the key word is genuine. you should not have side thoughts like "i want to fool this guy". you should not say to yourself "i want to take advantage of these people".
5. know where you are. if you meet new people, FIRST task is to observe and see who goes out with who, who is friends with wgo, who will support, defend and beat you up till you cry if you try to seduce a girl, and how "open" they are about sex talk. it will help you to avoid the #4 situation. if you don't do this, you'll be a clumsy DJ who does not know to listen to people. guys, this is a basic DJ skill.
TIP : one simple way is just ask openly about it like : "hey, are you his girlfriend ?" then follow with "wanna be my girlfriend" or some cheesy sex talk or go to another girl, depending on her answer. or ask to all of them their opinion about another sex scandal/sex story/sexual position and you will see where the couples are and where the free babes stand. you will see winks and some eye contact.
6. learn martial arts.
oh yeah, it doesn't have anything to with DJing, but i just thought it's a cool thing. Hot babes think the same too. and in case the giant boyfriend doesn't like humor and runs faster than you.
and i just hate the thought of sosuave DJs being beaten down in an obscure alley because he stole someone's girlfriend or sister
7. PERSONAL tip : in a party, really have fun. suggest cool games, tell funny stories, learn other's people stories and try to connect with them, tease people, suggest listening to some cool music and dance. forget about your worries. forget about the time. leave politics talk and work and technical stuff talks home.
after some time, i 'd bet you 'll have looks from all hot babes.
even if you don't know everything, just go in and go to the cool people who have fun. if you see someone who does a special dance move or something, say it's cool and ask him how to do it. TELL THEM you want to learn because it's cool. try the move, follow him. if you look like a 12 year old and mess up really badly with your legs, laugh and make a funny face. and try again. odds are that other people will join in and you will find new cool friends who know who to party and are not afraid to do new things. if you see a cool MC doing a show, if you have access, go there, and say "it's cool and i loved the way you ..." and ask him how he does it. bets are you two are going to talk about cool thing such as music and rhytms and parties. and maybe you'll try to do the MC stuff too to say hello to all the hot girls. your voice maybe won't match, BUT just go there. and hey, everyone will notice. the hot babes will see you as the life of the party. you'll have HUGE social proof and .... bytch shields will be down
and don't go to a party if you are exhausted and if you don't have that extra-energy. it happenned to me. sometimes you promise people to go a B-day party or a club and when the day arrives, you'd feel obliged to go there even if you don't feel like it. odds are that you'd finish sipping alcohol in a dark corner for hours and you'll find the music too loud. that's lousy. skip the party and rest. you should go to parties only if you want to have fun.
good luck guys !!!!!
This came after I read slicker's cool story. I advise everyone to read it.
I thought about it and i'd like to point some things so that we can learn some things. i also added a few tips of my own:
1. HUMOUR is one of our best qualities/tools, it works even better than brute alpha playing.
2. UNEXPECTED, surprising actions (even short ones) attracts people and hot babes to you. in slickster's story, the speech and the gag attracted the HBs.
3. if you want to pick up HB10s, LIVE INSIDE AN ALPHA MALE ENVIRONMENT. how is that so :
- if you have a alpha wingman, you two will have twice more C&F lines, twice more looks from the chicks, you will learn faster the game.
- the competition train your abilities and puts you in the DJ mindset. there are no AFC model around
- you are most likely to meet HB10s (their girlfriends, GF's sisters, cousins, friend's friends....) than anywhere else, because they are attracted to alpha males.
- as some of you would say, it raises your Testosterone level. Evolving in a alpha male environnement is dangerous and more physical. more fights situations. more sports events. more talks about babes and sex.
- and last, but not least, being in an alpha male environment is just more healthy, because they are not nerds who spend their time in front of their computer, but outdoors.
that means it's a *very* good idea to befriend the people you are working out with, or join a local sports club (football, rugby, soccer, basketball, waterpolo or any other man's sports...) and hang out with these fellow sportsmen afterwards. invite them to a bar, to the beach to play volleyball on weekends, or for a BBQ. From my experience, even if they are married, you'll talk about sex and sports and babes and sports... how is that about being in a DJ mindset ?
4. when confronted to a conflict or resistance, one way to disarm your ennemy is to admit he is right, even exagerrate things, then laugh.
for example, the boyfriend says you try to steal his girlfriend, so just say : "hey, it's right, this girl is hot, but she is SooOO crAAzzzyyyYy...
I need your help" . normally, he just expects you to fumble something and then hit you straight in the face; BUT if you stay cool about it and if you try to become his friend, he doesn't know what to do. if he punches you, he will look like an sub-ape . I mean, you can't punch someone who makes a joke, do you?another example would be let's say you are doing some C&F moves on a HB10. Then someone or even her says : "hey, what's that talk about sex" or something. i'd say like "it's so RIIighhhtt, damnn, i guess I am sOoo HOrnnyyy ... but looks at these boobs and that cool ass ... i cannot control myself ", then I act like a robot who looks automatically for the breasts and put my arms forward then do some BIG KINO on the girl like looking everywhere with your hands for a special something, while keeping the robot face. then i stop (know the limits) and burst laughing .... it works 100% and you get to touch another curvicious body
. afterwards, i just talk about the guy/girl who told the remark, for a while. the sexual tension must be lowered until they get comfortable again. then i come back to C&F mode again.so, always keep your coolness. Be friends the people you are with. If someone has problems, say "I understand you because this and that" or SAY/DO the things they are suspecting you of, smile, make a joke, and suggest to do some things with the guy/girl like saying "hey, let me buy you a drink, this is becoming interesting"
TIP : this comes naturally if you really have fun thus showing people that you are here to tell jokes and have fun. they will be convinced. the key word is genuine. you should not have side thoughts like "i want to fool this guy". you should not say to yourself "i want to take advantage of these people".
5. know where you are. if you meet new people, FIRST task is to observe and see who goes out with who, who is friends with wgo, who will support, defend and beat you up till you cry if you try to seduce a girl, and how "open" they are about sex talk. it will help you to avoid the #4 situation. if you don't do this, you'll be a clumsy DJ who does not know to listen to people. guys, this is a basic DJ skill.
TIP : one simple way is just ask openly about it like : "hey, are you his girlfriend ?" then follow with "wanna be my girlfriend" or some cheesy sex talk or go to another girl, depending on her answer. or ask to all of them their opinion about another sex scandal/sex story/sexual position and you will see where the couples are and where the free babes stand. you will see winks and some eye contact.
6. learn martial arts.
oh yeah, it doesn't have anything to with DJing, but i just thought it's a cool thing. Hot babes think the same too. and in case the giant boyfriend doesn't like humor and runs faster than you.
and i just hate the thought of sosuave DJs being beaten down in an obscure alley because he stole someone's girlfriend or sister
7. PERSONAL tip : in a party, really have fun. suggest cool games, tell funny stories, learn other's people stories and try to connect with them, tease people, suggest listening to some cool music and dance. forget about your worries. forget about the time. leave politics talk and work and technical stuff talks home.
after some time, i 'd bet you 'll have looks from all hot babes.
even if you don't know everything, just go in and go to the cool people who have fun. if you see someone who does a special dance move or something, say it's cool and ask him how to do it. TELL THEM you want to learn because it's cool. try the move, follow him.
if you look like a 12 year old and mess up really badly with your legs, laugh and make a funny face. and try again. odds are that other people will join in and you will find new cool friends who know who to party and are not afraid to do new things. if you see a cool MC doing a show, if you have access, go there, and say "it's cool and i loved the way you ..." and ask him how he does it. bets are you two are going to talk about cool thing such as music and rhytms and parties. and maybe you'll try to do the MC stuff too to say hello to all the hot girls. your voice maybe won't match, BUT just go there. and hey, everyone will notice. the hot babes will see you as the life of the party. you'll have HUGE social proof and .... bytch shields will be downand don't go to a party if you are exhausted and if you don't have that extra-energy. it happenned to me. sometimes you promise people to go a B-day party or a club and when the day arrives, you'd feel obliged to go there even if you don't feel like it. odds are that you'd finish sipping alcohol in a dark corner for hours and you'll find the music too loud. that's lousy. skip the party and rest. you should go to parties only if you want to have fun.
good luck guys !!!!!