Parties and hookups

[ILikeGirls<3]

So I hear often that during house parties girls will get drunk and come to you and just straight up get going with you so the next day everyone is like x and y hooked up. I am all for approaching and building rapport but hell if I could get into one of these parties it sounds like all of a sudden girls dont discriminate looks or rapport or anything and just jump all over some random guy, usually one or two per party "hook-up". so two things: First, why bother with anything but going to these crazy parties (I have only been to two) because it seems like dreams come true there. Second, some posters have already talked about how they experienced exactly what I describe here so I am asking if anyone else has experienced it as well.

 

[ILikeGirls<3]

True that. But hey, like I said it takes all the effort out of approaching building rapport, which I admit I'll have to do anyway when I get older, but it give you experience in bed and I need that, and so do lots of other people. And these sluts not only will refer to these encounters later in life as ONS's and shrug it off, but they dont cost a dime for sex! And they are young so less chance of STD. I still think its a good idea for an inexperienced guy to do this.

 

[SinJester]

So I hear often that during house parties girls will get drunk and come to you and just straight up get going with you so the next day everyone is like x and y hooked up. I am all for approaching and building rapport but hell if I could get into one of these parties it sounds like all of a sudden girls dont discriminate looks or rapport or anything and just jump all over some random guy, usually one or two per party "hook-up". so two things: First, why bother with anything but going to these crazy parties (I have only been to two) because it seems like dreams come true there. Second, some posters have already talked about how they experienced exactly what I describe here so I am asking if anyone else has experienced it as well.

It's true Only recently experiancing this myself. A lot of it goes out the window the enxt day, so its not the way to go if you want an actual relationship.

 

[Supremo]

Hooking up with drunk chicks takes about as much skill as remembering your birthday.

Don't use parties as your only way to hookup, or else girls will get talking about it and you'll be avoided (thought of as someone who can only hook up with drunk chicks...)

Nuff said.

 

[ILikeGirls<3]

Im definately hearing what I want to hear, as easy as remembering your birthday? LOL. It comes down to that I am a virgin, so sex is a big deal to me, and I know its really not so I am looking to get over this stupid state of mind, become less needy and desperate because that is the ****tiest state of mind you can ever have. No matter how many times I tell myself to get over it I know that I have to experience it before I can really convince myself of this. Now I have to find me a way to get into some of these crazy parties.

 

[Supremo]

It comes down to that I am a virgin, so sex is a big deal to me, and I know its really not so I am looking to get over this stupid state of mind, become less needy and desperate because that is the ****tiest state of mind you can ever have.

Yep... I can sense the neediness right there.

If you think that having sex once will make it so you don't wanna do it again, or will DECREASE the amount you think about it... you're entirely wrong.

Really man, I feel sorry that you want to waste your virginity on some stupid drunk *****.

Well, I guess have fun with that... if you can remember it... unless you were planning on not getting drunk yourself so you CAN remember it. **** this is too typical high school American Pie attitude for me.