"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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partial "blackout" unsure of how I ended up making out with girl

september_road

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The other night my friends from high school were on their college sprink break and decided to throw a party. I had just found out earlier that day I failed a physics midterm and was therefore eager to get wasted. I started out the night drinking gradually, but when I realized I wasn't getting the "drunken" effect I stepped it up a notch. And so I got pretty wasted that night, making my memory of the night blurry. Now, I'm pretty sure I made out with one of the girls there, but I'm only like 75% sure. Apparently when I got back to my dorm I told my roommate I did, which is the only evidence I did. I vaguely remember on my way out that the girl I made out with was saying something to her friends about me, and I'm pretty sure it was something positive about what happened, but I can't remember a thing. So I really want to know what exactly happened that night, because I'm not the kind of guy to just go up and makeout with girls. Any idea how to figure it out without asking people at the party directly, because that would be kind of awkward and show I can't remember what happened (which I don't want them to know).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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do you know that chick?

i'd ask her if she was the chick i made out with.

i dunno if you wanted to make it C&F id' rephrase like the chick that "took advantage of me" or something

i dunno just an idea
 

september_road

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I do know her, so I feel like it'll be too awkward if I have to ask her directly. Plus, I'm not sure how much she remembers that night so if I ask her and she remembers clearly I'll feel bad that it was kind of a blur.
 
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