"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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parents are holding me back

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ok i know that this may sound rediculous, but i am a junior in high school. cant drive, no car. thats not too bad to me. but my parents dont let me get in anyone else's car for fear of accidents. i feel like this is really limiting me, and to be honest is quite absurd. what should i do? thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ignore your parents and get in their cars anyway, they won't know.
 
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suaveplayer said:
ok i know that this may sound rediculous, but i am a junior in high school. cant drive, no car. thats not too bad to me. but my parents dont let me get in anyone else's car for fear of accidents. i feel like this is really limiting me, and to be honest is quite absurd. what should i do? thoughts?
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Yeah bro, I know exactly what you are talking about...

My parents are the same exact way :mad: ---> except to a much lesser extent

Currently I'm grounded for stupid sh!t, but at least I have time to be on my favorite website ever! ;)
 
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suaveplayer said:
ok i know that this may sound rediculous, but i am a junior in high school. cant drive, no car. thats not too bad to me. but my parents dont let me get in anyone else's car for fear of accidents. i feel like this is really limiting me, and to be honest is quite absurd. what should i do? thoughts?
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Just tell your parents that your friends parents are picking you up, not your friends themselves. Do your parents know what kind of cars your friends drive?
 
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i know this is wat ive been doing. but it sux to always have to try to cover your tracks when you are trying to have fun. and seriously, im not one of those bad kid types.

also doesnt help that my snooopy older bro (he's a senior) is looking out for rule infractions from me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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maybe you can ask your parents to take you somewhere like a mall or something and drop you off where a friend would be waiting to pick you up to have some real fun
 
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suaveplayer said:
ok i know that this may sound rediculous, but i am a junior in high school. cant drive, no car. thats not too bad to me. but my parents dont let me get in anyone else's car for fear of accidents. i feel like this is really limiting me, and to be honest is quite absurd. what should i do? thoughts?
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Talk to your parents about it. Tell them your friends don't drink, you always wear your seat belt and your friends are safe - bring up convincing arguments. Show them you are mature and they will change their minds.

You can always take the city bus.

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Yeah bro, I know exactly what you are talking about...

My parents are the same exact way :mad: ---> except to a much lesser extent

Currently I'm grounded for stupid sh!t, but at least I have time to be on my favorite website ever! ;)
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Meh so than stop doing stupid ****.
 
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Trust your parents on this. In high school I didn't trust anyone else to drive so I took public or had my parents drop me off unless it was a big ass hummer limo or something.
 
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i wouldn't try and sneak

eventually they'll catch you...like you see on tv..all these tv shows where the kid gets caught and the parent finds out and they have that emotional talk and there's hugging and all that....there's also some where the kid gets blasted by another car

haha anyways...parents ARE wise...unless your parents aren't the typical parents...my parents told me to break up with one of my gf's before..didn't listen..turns out she cheated on me...haha

take the bus, or have them drop you off or drive you

the bus isn't that bad...could even be a date if your city has nice buses...take a ride around the city/state/etc...since both of you aren't driving...you can kino and all that **** all you want
 
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Don't show em your jumping in just say your working then just go to end of your driveway and make sure they can't see ya, then jump in thats what i used to do...

yeah i was in a crash lol but no one died it was just a bad corner to take at 140 and if you want to sneak, yeah hell you'll probably get caught but then they know that u've done this i've found they ease up same with some of my mates like if they got caught smoking or something its a good way to start an argument about why they wont let u do things.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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parents are always right.

They keep telling me to get a gf lmao.
 
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