"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Parents and Prom

DA KID

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Didn't know where to post it here or anything else. Thought here was a good place.

Anyway here's my story. I have prom coming up pretty soon in 3-4 weeks I beleive and my parents are letting me go but they don't know anything about prom. I need an excuse to not come home or what to tell them where I'll be. See my parents are very strict and barely let me do anything outside of school. I need to know what to say to where I'll be. See I don't want to tell them the truth since their going be no adults, girls, and alcholol. Yeah pretty sad usually parents are more worried about their daughters being with boys instead of boys with girls. But my parents are narrowminded. Any help or suggestions would be greatly helpful.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wavejams007

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Dude, I'd like to help, but I don't undrstand something. When you say there is going to be no adults, girls, or alcohol, what do you mean? Prom has boys and girls present. PLease clarify the situation.
 

DA KID

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I'm sorry I was typing to fast. I meant that I'm going to prom my parents are okay with. It's the after party which their will be no adults but will have girls and alcholol
 

wavejams007

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Thaks for the clearer info. This is really going to boil down to how much they trust you. Are you very responsable. I would not ask them about the party now, but wait a while and while you are waiting, show them you are a responsible, trustworthy person. Be upfront with your motives, and your actions, and they will trust you, slowly but surely.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sinner

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dude.. tell them you're going to a friends place or something
 

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You are not a baby anymore, and its time your parents realised it...

Time to rebel.


Laterz...
 

DA KID

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yeah my parents are wack. Everyone tells me to throw a party but scared cause of my rents
 

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Originally posted by DA KID
Didn't know where to post it here or anything else. Thought here was a good place.

Anyway here's my story. I have prom coming up pretty soon in 3-4 weeks I beleive and my parents are letting me go but they don't know anything about prom. I need an excuse to not come home or what to tell them where I'll be. See my parents are very strict and barely let me do anything outside of school. I need to know what to say to where I'll be. See I don't want to tell them the truth since their going be no adults, girls, and alcholol. Yeah pretty sad usually parents are more worried about their daughters being with boys instead of boys with girls. But my parents are narrowminded. Any help or suggestions would be greatly helpful.
Advice, don't let your parents control you. Show them who's boss.
 

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You got to decide whether not your parents are maliable or not. If they are not, you can either lie or learn how to break the rules. I don't see how parents can put restrictions on seniors who are going off to college in just a few months.(My friend's situation)

The best way to go to late night parties and do other stuff is just to say that your going to a friend's house to spend the night.

Would you mind saying why you got the grades you did?

You may be anxious because you want approval.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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