"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I was walking on a rather quiet side walk today where there were a few people around, and this girl was coming from the opposite direction; the moment she looked at me she smiled as if she saw the love of her life.

I didn't hesitate, turned back immediately and got close to her (Less than 30 seconds from the moment she smiled). Once I approached her and was walking besides her, I said hi; She stopped right there hysterically and ORDERED me to move along with a loud voice. I smiled and said nah you move along I Don't want anything to do with you. Again she ordered me to move along and I said "NO! I'm standing right here, YOU GTFO[rough translation]". WTF?! Was she afraid of getting stabbed from behind? LMFAO:crackup: Why smile like a loose hoe if you don't want to talk? I just said hi.

She almost ran away like a lunatic clown. Anyone else with similar shocking experiences?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I approached like a considerate gentleman, furthermore, smiling back and saying hi when someone smiles at you is not creepy.


Good points found via google search :
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http://www.healthboards.com/boards/3950196-post2.html
 
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lol dude you took way too long you should have been like hi, I'm Suspens, lovin your style -- or whatever, point is she smiled at you and you went trailed her for 30 seconds on a dimly lit street. My last daygame open was a 1030PM on a dimly lit street from behind. Of course thats cause she was walking faster than me and passed me. Once she passed me I opened in 3 seconds thereby avoiding "trail mode"
 

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I just said 'Hi' to myself and then counted to 30. 30 seconds doesn't sound like much but its an awfully long time when you're sitting there doing nothing. Not that I think the time was a major factor here. She was probably one of those fruit cakes who goes around smiling at everyone because she thinks she's spreading a little bit of happiness around the world because she wants to believe that she's a good person really and not the nasty b1tch everybody's told her she is. Well that didn't last long, did it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you should have asked her if she was off her meds.
 

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Based on some of your other approaches you've described... I think it's you.

Your timing, mannerisms/body language and spoken word are probably not what you perceive them to be.
 
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